I agree do not bring up the clothing request initially until after you are screened. At the point you can mention any clothing requests you might have.Usually after a gent has contacted me is screened I will ask him if he has any clothing requests a lot of gents seem to be surprised by that question. Being an email only provider I have no problem talking about a clothing request via email. I would keep the clothing request simple and not get into graphic language.That might turn some providers off. Good luck to you!
I know they occur all the time....and I know there have been some threads about them (I even asked the about it in general previously). I just want to make I'm not missing anything in terms of how it is done properly. I know some ladies work only through e-mail or texting. My particular request is going to have to do with what I do and don't (namely bra and panties) want them to wear. Should this only be discussed over a phone conversation? And if the lady generally only communicates via e-mail or text, should you ask her if you can discuss a specific outfit request over the phone and take care of it that way?
I realize there is no harm asking for someone to wear a french maid outfit via e-mail or text. But what about when you are getting a little more "graphic?"
And FYI, this will not involve anything that a lady would have to buy. Like I said, it's more about what I wouldn't want her to wear.
by the lady and set up the appointment, then you might want to bring up the topic.
Don't start in an introductory email talking about bra and panties, as it might get you ignored, but there is no harm discussing wardrobe preferences over email.
is to mention at initial contact that you may have a specific outfit request, without getting specific, than (as curly says) wait til you are screened before going into detail.
As long as you are not mentioning illegal services or talking about money in the e-mail, it shouldn't be a problem, but some girls might get uncomfortable if you are asking too much detail too soon.
1) Check her website...many times ladies will address clothing requests on their site. When they do, it is almost always saying they are very accomodating to clothing requests so they are easier to bring this topic up to.
2) Ladies that dont address it on their site I would take a more cautious tone. I usually say something like, "I dont know if you take clothing requests or not but if you do, would you mind wearing..." then at the end I would say something like "but if my request makes you feel uncomfortable in any way, please dress as you wish as your comfort is ultimately important to me. Either way, thank you for considering it." The last thing in the world you want is to have an awkward moment with a lady that may find your request odd since you dont know her. Kinda gets the session off to a bad start.
3) If you have booked the appointment well in advance, try and build some rapport with her a bit before you hit her up for a clothing request. Having her get to know you a bit helps bring the walls down between you but dont overdue. Just a couple of emails to break the ice seems to work well but not too many to over burden her.
4) Def wait till after you have been verified & def use her preferred method of communication. Many ladies work day jobs and/or are moms and cant talk on the phone.
5) Be super polite and fully respect her wshes at alll times, and in most cases, the lady will accomodate a reasonable request if they can.
I agree do not bring up the clothing request initially until after you are screened. At the point you can mention any clothing requests you might have.Usually after a gent has contacted me is screened I will ask him if he has any clothing requests a lot of gents seem to be surprised by that question. Being an email only provider I have no problem talking about a clothing request via email. I would keep the clothing request simple and not get into graphic language.That might turn some providers off. Good luck to you!
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