For all who care to submit, what's your idea of a GFE. Please put this in the correct area, if the general discussion board is incorrect? Thanx.

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LFK/DFK
BBBJ
DATY/DATO
FIP
CIM
CFS
If she does not include all of the above, she's not GFE

in high school or college.  Lots of foreplay, slow and sensuous teasing with lots of DFK, stroking, tounging, BBBJ, and then a big finish whether it be CIM, COB, or CIP.  Some relaxing time and more playtime until Mr. Happy can't go again.

It's not any particular sex act or how it is performed that defines GFE.

It's more pure intimacy. Peeling back the pretense and allowing to be yourself. Being so comfortable with another that nothing else matters. A feeling that is natural and subtle yet so intense. Clearly time stands still and things follow effortlessly.

I am an affectionate kissable friendly lady..thats what I offer and who I am. The rest just seems to seamlessly fit in.

Do I consider myself a GFE?  Yes

Kisses Haley

make here feel comfortable,make her laugh. Then you will get your real GFE.

Many will say that GFE is a certain set of services offered. Many others will say it's an attitude and level of connection. You could probably get most to agree that it's some of both. You could get the services inicky listed and still not get a GFE attitude from the lady. You could get the GFE connection/attitude but not some of the services. I read a post today where a client was told the lady was all about GFE then found she would not kiss him, did not allow DATY, and I believe he said she did a covered blow job. He was certain her idea of GFE was not the same as his.
I only want GFE sessions. I want the girlfriend attitude when in a session. That includes loving, affectionate, touchy, hugging, caressing, conversation, and playfullness. I also want French kissing, an uncovered blow job, DATY, and covered full service. I enjoy other activities but these are the ones I must have or I won't be visiting the lady no matter how GFE she is. The best way to know if that's going to happen is by reading the reviews and consult with guys that have seen her if possible. I recommend you define what it means to you and then search for ladies that will provide it according to that definition.

and the answers can be very different, depending who is answering. There will never be agreement on this issue. It is possible that your post was moved from the GD board over here by the mods to keep you from being flamed, or to keep this post from becoming a trainwreck thread. Even if you are not a newbie per se, you are not a regular kinown poster on the GD board so that is probably why the post was moved. Not sure why your two threads were not merged here though. It is kind of weird having two threads on the same topic started by the same poster, and only two threads apart

Now having said that there will never be universal agreement on what constitutes GFE, I also read your post below about your particular experience, and I don't think by any stretch of the imagination would anyone consider that particular experience remotely close to GFE.

For me it is about kissing, cuddling, skin to skin contact, lots of foreplay, massage, conversation, and enjoying each other's company. I have to feel like she really enjoys being with me. (And that part can be an act, but it better be a really good, convincing act.) I will "forget it was a service" and I will leave (or she will leave--depending if incall or outcall) and still be thinking about the experience for hours, days, or sometimes weeks. And yes it usually involves DATY, BJ, and sex. But I dare say (and if I say this on the GD board I will get flamed for being some kind of an idiot) I can actually have a GFE experience without sex.

And I don't see guys who blatantly ask if I'm GFE because it is generally understand by most guys to include certain sex acts that were just mentioned... so it is solicitation in my book.

It's just like asking, "Do you do bbbj?" Or if a provider comes (gotta love those double entendres!) right out and says "You can expect bbbj and DATY at every session!" on her ads or website.

A guy can ask for my time and I market myself as a no rush, connection oriented provider... but I will never make any promises of services, in code or not, prior to a date. I've never had to up to this point. The ones that want to know specifics check my reviews.

Maybe you should drop the term altogether and just start looking specifically for the things you are really interested in. Most providers have a "yes, no" to specific services listed on their profile and if you want a real double check, PM the reviewers she has listed on her profile and ask them if you can expect "X, Y, Z" - whatever that is in either services or attitude.

I just re-read my post, and was thinking some people might read the "skin to skin" contact part and take that to mean bbfs. That is definitely not what I meant at all. As I said later in my post I can personally have a GFE without sex. What I meant by skin to skin contact is nude cuddling and massage and such. Sorry if anyone got the wrong idea

imagines it would feel like if she was your GF for more than the allotted time.  

If there is one "sexual act" for me it would be the non-penitrative act of lying bare skin to bare skin, body to body cuddling.  The most intimate act post-coitus is for the lady in the foregoing to guide the gents hand over her heart...  very often the hearts will syncronize.  
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