For me, CIM is nice, but not required.  You should at least do COB.  Besides, from a healthy guy it's good for your skin, from what I hear.   I should sell this stuff!

Its not a deal-breaker unless the lady advertises CIM and then won't follow through. I just assume there is no BBBJ/CIM/COF if the lady does not make it known ahead of time, either on her website or in conversation at the time of the session. And it never hurts to politely ask. Personally, I love to give the lady COF much more than CIM, you know, like in certain movies...

I love CIM but I'd rather have a really great blow job from a girl that doesn't allow it than an okay one from a girl that does.

To me, CIM is usuaully the first thing i look for in a girl I have not seen. Now whether she spits it out or not, that doesn't matter to me, but CIM is a requirement. I have had a couple instances when after popping, you are in a position and your leg is getting all wet from your last unload..

talk about being in a sticky situation lol

People are asking for this via email? :-(

I don't require cim. The idea that it's avail. is nice. What a great way to finish off a bbbj. Otherwise the interruption may cause me(more-so junior) to re-think spouting off.

In fact, sometimes I prefer COF and COB is nice too.

There are a few gals I see who do a wonderful BBBJ and then switch to hand mode at the very last second (They seem to have mastered the art of knowing just when I'm about to explode.) and I find them very satisfying.

On the other hand, I know a gal who insist on me coming in her mouth every time, and she swallows it and sucks me as dry as a bone.  She says she just loves the feel of cum shooting in her mouth.  I must say that I enjoy that, not only for the nice sensation but for the ego thing as well and seeing how excited she gets from it.

Not a deal breaker, nor would I ever ask unless I had met with you previously, and we had developed a rapport.  

In the heat of playtime, if this happens, great. In general, I go along with whatever the lady wants to do...and most that I see will allow this.  If a hobbyist does his homework and reads reviews, he knows to a certain extent what to expect going in, and sets his gameplan accordingly.

Neither is a deal breaker for me.  Yes, any of the 3 options listed are a great way to finish, but the quality of the service is more important than the finish.  A lackluster effort at a BJ with CIM does not induce me to see a provider.  

I have some ladies request  that I let them know when I am about to finish because they are not into CIM.  They take Mr. Happy in their talented hands for the last few seconds prior to completion.  This is also very satisfying.

However, BBBJ is a deal breaker.

I want the most intense experience possible...  how she handles it is open for her to showcase her skills.  Not a deal breaker either way.

Re:  CIM...  a good provider will get a guy very close.  Personally, I like a little porn-style hand action near the finish...  some guys consider it "cheating"!!  I do not.  There may not be a lot of time but there is enough for her to get it out of her mouth if that is her preferance...  but if she does, she needs to firmly continue to encircle the penis with her hands.  The swelling of the explosion, contained by the encircling pressure, makes for a good pop.  

Discussing sexual acts in e-mail or phone is rude...  click...   Anything of a sexual nature is best whispered when we are naked between the sheets.
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I normally don't want CIM. Have hobbied for 25 years and have had CIM twice, both times the lady took me to the edge before I could pull back. I am more likely not to book a provider that does CIM.

no bbbj is a deal breaker as is no dfk.  While I like to CIM, if she does not do it, no big deal.  I think I have only had one lady insist that I do it for her.  COF, never done it.  COB, done it in Russian which feels like BBFS, nice feeling.

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