I don't know why it took me so long considering I had no religious reasons for remaining a virgin for so long. I am just more introverted and into my own hobbies and things. So never had a girlfriend since age 25. I was happy jerking off to porn for all these years, but finally I knew I had to do something after confessing to a friend I was a virgin. I must say it took a lot of research to get into this hobby since the info. is really not out there. But now that I have found this great site, Ill be active quite often!