It's after dinner on a weekend and you are home with your SO.
Your cell phone rings and you answer it. It is an escort
You do not have a hobby phone and you rarely get calls on your cell phone.  Your SO generally knows anyone who would be calling.
What can you say to her so that she understands the situation and won't think you lost interest in her. You wouldn't want to say "you reached a wrong number" and  at the same time you want to say something as  not to spill the beans to your SO
HELP!!!

and go out there and get a pre-paid cell phone, which should be switched on only when appropriate. And please pay for the phone and minutes with cash only.

"Sorry, you have the wrong number."  She's an escort calling you on your phone.  If she is too stupid to figure out what is going on she will only cause you more grief down the road.  Probably best to find a more discreet and intelligent provider if you are into giving them your phone number.

By the way, you maintain interest on her part by continuing to book appointments...

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Thanks .. But I know escorts require your phone number or they will not meet you.

Most current cell phones allow the user to assign specific ring tones to individuals or "groups" of callers.

 I have several different rings assigned to several different groups, and depending on my situation I can answer or ignore/mute the ringer when it goes off. If your SO were to ask why you didn't answer it merely tell her that it was in a group not worthy of interupting your time with her.

I would pretend it was a business call, and I would say something like:

"I can't find that information out for you until I'm back in the office tomorrow morning.  I'll call you then with it."

Or some similar ruse.

The provider will understand what's going on.

Sorry Bob L, I should have been more clear. Of course you have to give a lady your number but she should not be calling you for any reason other than to confirm an appointment, reschedule or cancel one. Any discrete lady will ask you when it is OK to call and she certainly won't freak out if you have to dumby-up when you can't talk on the phone.

Any provider that calls a gent without his prior approval is lacking in the brain cell dept. I know that is harsh but sheesh....Who the hell would call a gent out of the blue? Does she have a secret wish to destroy a gent's personal life???  

Sorry wrong number is the best bet. However, as we all know, most s/os have a sixth sense and that just may not fly without rasing a few eyebrows. Shame on the provider for putting you in that position.  

Never never call a gent without prior permission.

I'm a provider and I would NEVER call one of my friends unless I knew 1.there was no s/o or 2.he had told me ahead of time.  I have too much respect for my friends to put them in such a situation!!

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It it always a great pleasure to welcome the ladies willing to help the newbies!!!

If you want to post a link to your site, your site has to display the TER badge of banner.  Unfortunately, I have no way of knowing whether or not your site meets this criteria, as when I clicked the link you originally posted, the same link as the one in your profile, prompted me to enter a password!!!  Not good for advertising!!!

I hope you get this sorted out,

jazz32

Even knowing he has no s/o we shouldn't call. I'm sure he still dates, has friends and family. At work etc.  There is no good reason to call. If he wants to talk to us...he will call us.

Are you saying that you don't return calls to guys who you don't know, who happen to leave messages on your phone?!?  Of course not!!!

I appreciate your discretion!  But, guys would serve themselves, and YOU well, by indicating a time frame for you to respond, or listing times that it would be more and less convenient for the provider to her to return the call when they leave a message, particularly if there is an SO involved.

Just my £0.02

jazz32

I'm sorry, I guess I should have been clearer. What I meant was I would never call a guy out of the blue just to call.  I absolutly will return a gent's phone calls. I have on my website and on my voice mail explicit instructions for when a gent leaves a message, to please let me know when I may or may not return his call. That's always been my modus opperandi ( Yes I f'd up the spelling there lol). What I was refering to in my other post was a provider just calling a guy unsolicited. What's the point to that?  Sorry for confusion sweetie.

xoxoxxoxo,
Holly

my best advice is that the next time you leave a message, leave a timeframe to return the call!  The lady may have been busy all afternoon and this was her earliest opportunity to call you back!

And yes, you have the wrong number is always appropriate.

place and only turn it on when you are expecting a call.  Well worth the $20 every 3 months and the phone was cheap too.