I am very knew to all this so be kind.

I've read so much of this site over the last week but I have a few questions.

Today I had the most amazing time, I saw a provider and I'm pleasently dazed. This is just incredable.

So here goes. A friend of mine suggested I pick a lady from this site based on reviews and my dream type. I did and it was mind blowing. Should I Review this lady?

The reason I ask is because I don't want anybody to know who I am. I used my friend as a reference to see this lady and it worked out great. I assume I can use her for a reference in the future.

I don't want to tell anybody my ter handle when making an appointment. Is this going to be a problem?

If I review I will be honest. I see a sort of conflict of interest if you do this kind of thing often with the ladies knowing your handle.

I guess I rambled a bit but what do you think.

Also If I join this site does anybody know if CCBILL is the only company that has my real info or does this site have that also?

If you truly enjoyed your date, why not review her?

Your handle is an alias to begin with, so I really don't understand why you would be worried that someone would know who you are, unless you use this handle other places and friends are aware of it.

Yes, you can probably use this lady as a future reference, but you should ask her before doing so.

You don't have to give out your TER handle when making a date, many guys repeatedly say that they do not.  Again, I don't see what the problem would be by giving it out.  I use my handle for lots of stuff and have no problem giving it out.  However, I am not married and have no SO to worry about.  What you might consider is joining a verification site, like Date Check, to help with screening.  Otherwise, you are likely to have to give out personal info, like real name and where you work so they can screen you.  Would you rather do that?

As far as CCBill goes, I have no idea.  I just use my own credit card and have had no problems.  Again I have no one to hide from.  This site only has what you gave them when you registered/paid.

Good luck,
Swim

They have the info that was provided.  TER does not have (or ever receive) your billing info.

While I do give out my TER handle, some do not.

Every so often, a reviewer will tell of being harrassed by a provider because she was not happy with the review.

It is not that common, but it is something to think about.

On the other hand, many providers won't see someone without knowing their TER handle, so I do so just to make it easier to see someone.

You'll have to decide which path to take on your own.

Thanks for the advice. I wrote a review last night and it was kind of exciting and embarressing at the same time.

I was just thinking about if I ever have a shitty time with a provider rated with high numbers and mine are low. I dont want to have anyone attack me for my ratings and girls wont see me because im honest.

Thanks everybody

Thanks little phil. I will join today.

Post the review.
As long as you are honest. I think the only time issues come up about reviews is when the reviewer isn't be hing honest.
Reviews are important. For hobbyists it helps finding great experiences. For providers reviews add business. Also providers can possibly learn from reviews.
Just my two cents.

it seems to me that, unless you write either very broadly or cryptically in your review, most providers will figure out from who they saw recently which one posted the review. So, depending on how much info you gave the provider, she at least will know tour TER handle. Fortunately, virtually all providers have a vested interest in discretion, so I wouldn't worry a lot about it.

knows that if she's received a single poor review after several good ones, she 'll take the necessary steps not to repeat the bad experience. A smart provider usually already knows why it wasn't a stellar session.

If she's received a second poor review, and fairly soon after the first, then she's not paying attention and might even be starting to burn out. If she's consistently getting poor reviews, then she isn't taking the time to invest in improving herself; at that point she deserves to be "fired."

Although I haven't but one PROVIDER review to my name (the same clients that have agreed to M&Gs but not to giving references are notorious for also not writing reviews), I have been given job performance reviews in civie jobs.  If my job review was good, I got a raise and I got to keep my job.  If I had improvements to make (such as getting my reports to accounting in a more timely fashion), then I made them. I knew that if I didn't make the improvements, I'd be without a job.

It's the same idea with a smart provider. If she's making improvements, she's worth keeping.  If her recent reviews show that she isn't making improvements, then look elsewhere.