: Newbie - FAQ Discussion : Catch 22 Trap

Tippe 41 Reviews 1835 reads

posted 12 years ago

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How do you get out of this trap if you're new? All the ladies I want to see are demanding 2 references. Of the few providers I've met who do not screen, most of them are high volume BPers that just wants to get your money and move on. I was lucky to meet one who would be willing to offer a reference but that's only one.

I tried to see a massage lady today but the email asked for a reference. /facepalm

swimtrekr 59 Reviews 536 reads

posted 12 years ago

2 / 6

Tippe, that's what pretty most all of us in this

hobby had to go thru. Try joining one or more of the verification sites, Datecheck, Preferred411, or RoomService2000. Read the self help center, it might help you.

Swim

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 390 reads

posted 12 years ago

3 / 6

Ask a provider you have seen to whitelist you!

I do for mi amigo's here on TER.

Cosette 357 reads

posted 12 years ago

4 / 6

Join

P411 and you can search by those who are "Newbie" Friendly.

That's probably the most efficient way to find them.

JosephineBelle See my TER Reviews 388 reads

posted 12 years ago

5 / 6

I actually prefer not to use references...

I don't like waiting for other providers to get back to me because, in the past, some have either not responded or taken a couple days.

Join rs2k, it's worth it and is my preferred method of screening.

Posted By: Tippe

How do you get out of this trap if you're new? All the ladies I want to see are demanding 2 references. Of the few providers I've met who do not screen, most of them are high volume BPers that just wants to get your money and move on. I was lucky to meet one who would be willing to offer a reference but that's only one.

I tried to see a massage lady today but the email asked for a reference. /facepalm

natashalynne See my TER Reviews 325 reads

posted 12 years ago

6 / 6

R2K is great IF you're in Chicago. Anywhere else, P411 is a much better option (eom)

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