He undoubtedly knows you are new. Just say you've changed your mind. If either of you are not comfortable, you wouldn't have a good time & it would be wrong to take his money. CANCEL now so he can make other plans.
Okay so i have a date tonight and im nervous I did my own screening. address checked out and name but he can not tell me where he works till i get there. another thing he said his buddy told him about it red flag came up. I dont know if im nervous and scared or im feeling this for a reason. should i skip out on this i dont have no information only about his address and name and they matched confused
Okay so i have a date tonight and im nervous I did my own screening. address checked out and name but he can not tell me where he works till i get there. another thing he said his buddy told him about it red flag came up. I dont know if im nervous and scared or im feeling this for a reason. should i skip out on this i dont have no information only about his address and name and they matched confused
Work verification is crucial, if he can't tell you where he works then it may be a bad sign, did he stay the reason why he is not giving employment information? Is this a residence, a hotel? does he have references? Always follow your gut feeling! Be safe. Paloma M.
That is a very lame excuse... I bet half of the board works for a very big company and the guys are more than willing to give employment info for your peace of mind and safety.. It sounds too shady to be safe and legit unless he is willing to provide references and/or Date-Check, P411 membership (although I always check either way, nobody is bulletproof). If he is a new guy, it is just a bad idea overall.. proceed with caution. At this point, it may be to your best interest to get sign up with an assistant, screening is not rocket science but it can save you from millions of things that can go wrong, not just LE.
exact thing i was thinking. THANK YOU!!! I am not going. On to the NExt. I have tried but I am also new to the indy world and they can not verify me unless someone vouches for me....ugh the life of a newbie!
Many clients do not want to give out employment info. LE can fake employment if they really want. Address and other info can match; doesn't mean ok or not ok. Tons of guys "hear" about hobbying from a friend. You are an escort/massage girl. That's not illegal correct. Just keep it that way. If this is your first call/date of course you are nervous. I still get a bit nervous each time they are new to me. I do agree you need to go with your gut but differentiate between nerves and intuition.
I am not saying he is safe and you should go, just made the decision on your own. You don't have reviews do you? I bet he is nervous as well.
Posted By: swimtrekr
I'd bail. There are plenty of guys out there that will give you the info you want. Move on.
I fully understand that you sometimes need to cancel at the last minute due to “bad vibs”, etc. It’s obviously better to be wrong about your reasons and cancel than vice versa. But my advice is to not be a no show/no call as a result.
I know it’s easy to sometimes think the guy deserves to be ignored and in some cases no further communication might be wise. But in other cases there is a good intentioned guy out there who either said the wrong thing or could use a little education. Rather than ignore him, call or email with some sort of explanation. This doesn't have to put you at risk. It might even save you some future grief by keeping him from doing something like making a post here about how you were a NC/NS.
He undoubtedly knows you are new. Just say you've changed your mind. If either of you are not comfortable, you wouldn't have a good time & it would be wrong to take his money. CANCEL now so he can make other plans.
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