Hi,even as a newbie I know most of the pictures are photo shopped or modified somehow. But I was wondering if they are so drastically different that the girl is not even close to the one you thought she would be and just leave? And if I think that I was bait and switched can I leave and reschedule or what should I do?
If a restaurant served you canned tuna when you ordered kobe' beef you would leave with out paying right? same thing. I never read a review that stated the lady was not the lady in picture and it ended well for the guy. Do not reward bad behavior.
but B&S is a scam... if one is prepetrated on you, why would you think that another will not follow. I'd try not to cause excess drama but you are within your rights to walk. By reading reviews, I found a young hottie I've been considering is 10 years older than her pictures, has a lot of Tats which is a turn off for me. I scratched her from my bucket list. You really need VIP to read the full reviews... just the prescence of a review does NOT mean it was good. I've been amazed to find links to TER reviews that are piss poor! VIP costs less than even one spoiled date! skb
only see well reviewed ladies, you should be able to avoid B & S. By reading the juicy details in a reviews, you should be able to figure out who is real and who is not.
thanks for the tips guys and yah i plan on getting vip by posting reviews and just started hobbying. thanks again
Good luck, I've just been trying that and have only been successful once (with someone that didn't have any reviews). I just tried with a girl that had 2 or 3 already and couldn't get approved because looks or performance didn't match what the other people that reviewed already said. I don't know them, people have different tastes and opinions on what a good or bad performance is so I can't control that, I call it as I see it. Some people like little barbie types, others find that boring, so 2 reviewers may not see eye to eye. Also, a provider might give someone a good performance and the next person a bad one, so it may not match. So it's messed up that your review can get rejected based on it not being similar enough to others. Who knows, maybe it's something they do to try to entice you to pay for membership instead. That's what I'm starting to think. I'm leery about seeing a provider with no reviews but it seems like being the first to review one of them might be my best bet for actually getting a review approved so I can get vip membership since I have no idea of how other reviewers might rate one.
Do your homework, you only have yourself to blame if you don't make the effort to find out who your going to be spending time with, otherwise you'll just be TOFTT. If you do, be sure to write a review about your bad experience so other newbies don't fall for it!!
Don't see non-reviewed ladies. They are most likely bait and switch. Basically if their pictures look *too good* chances are they are...
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Agreed, Too good to be true us very true in my limited hobbying experience. I was just asking a provider on 'Chat' about this very question, and they sent me to this forum (which I didn't know existed). I find Tineye is very useful in terms of bait and switch, it's a free attachment to most web browsers that allows you to search for a picture on the web, and you can see if it has been used elsewhere - found many pics that weren't original from BP that way.
As an aside, I've posted a few reviews and never had one rejected, most good, some bad, probably typical of the experiences of most hobbyist. I'm new to the hobby, but it didn't take me long to work out that a year on VIP on TER was roughly the same as one bad date, so it was well worth it.
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