I have never had an experience with a provider. There was one time when I called an agency and I ended up getting ripped-off. Now, I've been trying to book an appointment with various independants, and so far, I've been ignored. My phone messages and emails have always been very polite, and discreet, and I never mention money or sex, yet I still get denied service.
In one email I sent, to a provider, recently, I explain to the lady that I recently enlisted in the United Sates Marine Corps, but that I hoped that wouldn't disqualify me. I further explain that the reason why I mentioned that, is because I wanted to be honest with her, I thought it might concern her, and it was going to come up in our conversation anyway.
Apparently, it did disqualify me from making an appointment, because she never replied to my email. I'm really disappointed too, because she sounded like the exact kind of woman I wanted to meet (tender, sweet, and romantic).
So, can I not get service now that I am serving in the military?
this provider (perhaps like some) assumed the usual age-ist stereotypes: just enlisted? must be a young guy. young guys are crude and inconsiderate. therefore THIS guy must be crude and inconsiderate. you'll see this topic come up over and over on these boards. general rule of thumb is providers prefer to see men over 30 for a variety of reasons one of which is that they're not "jack-hammer johns" (a common complaint seems to be that they want nothing but BJ for a whole hour in exchange for their donation -- girl's jaws get tired you know!)
on the other hand (OTOH) some gals like our men in uniform and give military discounts (or at least claim they do). so in theory you may get special treatment from some
but my advice would be: don't bring this up until/unless it comes up on its own (let's say after she's realized you're a gent). by then she'll mostl likely be cool with it and you'll reap the benefits further down stream
It may not necessarily have been a rejection due to the uniform (although she may assume that you might be unable to be "generous" enough for her taste based on your limited means (I apologize if I am making a generalization that doesn't apply to you, but I have many friends in the military and they all make less than most)).
The rejection may be due to your newbie status and potential LE-ness which makes you a potential risk that might involve handcuffs for her. Many, especially, the well established, would rather you cut your teeth on some one else first. After you have a good session, tell the provider that you will be posting a good review here and that you would like to use her as a potential reference in the future. This will help you set up good "credit" with the providers (kind of like how "no" credit is worse than "bad" credit with some banks).
Actually, I'm a newbie when it comes to this site (I've previously played Russian Roulette with the Yellow Pages up til now while travelling) and I have my first TER recommended session scheduled for this weekend with an FMF set to go. I tried contacting three providers. One never emailed me back (after sending two emails). The second emailed promptly that she was out of the area during my scheduling window. And the third emailed me back within 72 hours and that's who I am seeing (along with her friend). So keep trying, but don't read too much into any rejections. They may be either too busy or uncomfortable with an unknown quantity such as yourself.
Check out this recent thread on the general boeard. I doubt that it is directly related to your military status. However, i am assuming that because you are in the military, you are a younger person, as many providers may be assuming also.
Thank you all for your responses. Yes, I am rather young - 25 years old - but I still consider myself a gentleman.
I was just wondering if anyone who worked for the government bureaucracy, would automatically be denied service. I've seen the "terms and conditions" page of some ladies' websites, which you must agree to, to enter the site, and they usually say "I am not a U.S.P.S. employee..." so, I guess if you're just a simple mail carrier, you would also be denied service.
Also, I figured that being a soldier was kind of like being LE, in some sort of way. I hope that's not the case, because I'm pretty shy, and its hard enough for me to meet women as it is, but being an active-duty Marine will make it even harder, and I'm sort of interested in establishing a regular relationship with an SP, so that I can have someone to spend time with whenever I'm in port, and maybe even take on a vacation with me.
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