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Calling A Provider.
ROGM 504 reads
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Nothing wrong with asking General Questions such as price and general location. But don't ask anything specific like, CIM, COF, Greek, or any other Sexual Questions. Most likely she'll hang up on you. Don't commit to an appointment and then cancel. If you're going to make a definite appointment make sure your day is clear of any other obligations. These Girls set aside the time for you to see them. To cancel out is  being disrespectful of their time and commitment to see you

markstamper231943 reads

Hi. I was wondering, what exactly does calling a provider imply? What I mean is, once you call and answers, are you supposed to be committed to making an arrangement? How unusual/rude is it to call, ask about rules and such or general incall location, and then back out and say 'sorry, can't do it today'? Is it almost as bad as cancelling? Or is it understood that merely making the call means nothing? Because you can't always learn everything from an ad.

Secondly, how weird would it be if I were to ask a girl how tall she is during the initial call? I gather that that mat seem like a weird thing to be concerned with, nothing against tall women, but I'm really short, and was with a tall girl once and found, to my chagrin, that it makes certain activities physically awkward. Without going into detail, I almost incurred a groin injury that time due to her height advantage over me. So I now generally prefer shorter women for that reason. And if I ask a provider, how tall she is, would it be like asking her bust size: something she might embellish? In which case would most women overstate or understate their height if they think a potential client cares how tall they are? Thanks.

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ROGM505 reads

Nothing wrong with asking General Questions such as price and general location. But don't ask anything specific like, CIM, COF, Greek, or any other Sexual Questions. Most likely she'll hang up on you. Don't commit to an appointment and then cancel. If you're going to make a definite appointment make sure your day is clear of any other obligations. These Girls set aside the time for you to see them. To cancel out is  being disrespectful of their time and commitment to see you

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swimtrekr513 reads

You are not committed, but by calling, IMHO, you have expressed a definite interest in spending time with her.  Be careful about what you ask about, as it is a big no-no to ask about specific sexual activities. Many providers will make date, and give you a general location, then ask you to call for specific hotel/room number/address.

As to the height issue, that's up to you.  I"m 5-8 and have seen taller ladies, once you're horizontal, it doesn't matter....LOL
If you're that bothered, ask, but height never bothered me.

Swim

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DocJuan24317 reads

Posted By: swimtrekr
You are not committed, but by calling, IMHO, you have expressed a definite interest in spending time with her.  Be careful about what you ask about, as it is a big no-no to ask about specific sexual activities. Many providers will make date, and give you a general location, then ask you to call for specific hotel/room number/address.  
   
 As to the height issue, that's up to you.  I"m 5-8 and have seen taller ladies, once you're horizontal, it doesn't matter....LOL  
 If you're that bothered, ask, but height never bothered me.  
   
 Swim
Its hard for me to find a woman taller than me at 6-1 but this is some good advice! maybe he was attempting some macho man type elbow drop/ knuckle technique from atop a dresser or something?? :D either way poor guy.

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markstamper23344 reads

Posted By: swimtrekr
You are not committed, but by calling, IMHO, you have expressed a definite interest in spending time with her.  Be careful about what you ask about, as it is a big no-no to ask about specific sexual activities. Many providers will make date, and give you a general location, then ask you to call for specific hotel/room number/address.  
   
 As to the height issue, that's up to you.  I"m 5-8 and have seen taller ladies, once you're horizontal, it doesn't matter....LOL  
 If you're that bothered, ask, but height never bothered me.  
   
 Swim
Well you've got almost 3 inches on me then lol, so at least you're still taller than the average woman.  

I never ask anything sexual or specific questions, I just ask if they do in or out call and general location. But if I find out that she's way on the other side of town and cannot get there and back in reasonable time   (or would just be more effort than it's worth) as usually very little about location is available on line, I don't to feel like I'm obligated to make the trek just because I wasted one minute of her time?

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DocJuan24363 reads

Posted By: markstamper23
 
   
Posted By: swimtrekr
You are not committed, but by calling, IMHO, you have expressed a definite interest in spending time with her.  Be careful about what you ask about, as it is a big no-no to ask about specific sexual activities. Many providers will make date, and give you a general location, then ask you to call for specific hotel/room number/address.  
     
  As to the height issue, that's up to you.  I"m 5-8 and have seen taller ladies, once you're horizontal, it doesn't matter....LOL  
  If you're that bothered, ask, but height never bothered me.  
     
  Swim
 Well you've got almost 3 inches on me then lol, so at least you're still taller than the average woman.  
   
 I never ask anything sexual or specific questions, I just ask if they do in or out call and general location. But if I find out that she's way on the other side of town and cannot get there and back in reasonable time   (or would just be more effort than it's worth) as usually very little about location is available on line, I don't to feel like I'm obligated to make the trek just because I wasted one minute of her time?
You aren't obligated as she isn't obligated. If you do outcall if its within the city she operates in she will find the means to get to you and generally on time. If they're ever late from my understanding they typically let you know ahead of time. As for in call can't speak on that. Don't have much experience with in call! But if you book and find you can't travel from that distance from say an airport or between meetings. I.E. a time crunch I doubt the provider would mind if you canceled or changed to outcall provided you gave her adequate time to adjust and or a feasible reason!

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DJ1985435 reads

Read her ads, website and reviews, find out all you can from the info she provides. If you still have questions call and ask but be ready to commit to a date not just as a fishing expedition wasting her time. If you ask about things you should know from researching her, or ask sexual questions you'll probably go on her DNS list and never find out how good it could have been.

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keystonekid326 reads

have reviews here, you should pass.

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1192967321 reads

...read her profile. It has height, etc. It has her price. Don't follow ROGM's advice about asking price. While some providers don't mind you asking what is her donation for an hour of her time (for example) you don't know that in first contact so asking could get you shut out. I gather you are a newbie. You should start by only seeing well reviewed providers so you can check them out here.

Don't call until you know you want to book. Be specific about time of day, date, and length of appointment. She can suggest other times, etc. if necessary. Just calling for info can be seen as you being a time waster.
Get VIP membership here so you can see all about the provider and PM.

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mrfisher344 reads

If she does not list her number, then don't call her from the number listed on her profile, because most gals I've known only give out their numbers to committed clients in order to facilitate meeting at their venue.

And, at the risk of being overbearing on this point, do not discuss sexual activities or money with her over the phone, or email for that matter.

Her height can be determined from her profile.

Many gals are leery of guys who like to call and chat endlessly about salacious topics to get their jollies, but never make an appointment.

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