when it was your first time?

I think I did, but it was so long ago.

I can still picture her and the whole room and the time though.

Gals:  Can you tell when it's his first time?

While she might not care if you are a newbie, it might affect how she handles you...Maybe more effort to relax you if she knows you are a hobby virgin.  I think your session will go more smoothly if she knows this is your first time with a provider.

Swim

Nothing kills a relationship (business or personal) faster than dishonesty.  Granted, you don't have to go into your life story , but I figure that this is something the lady should know, because (A) it may affect whether or not she's still willing to see you, and (B) it will have a bearing on how the encounter goes.  If the lady knows that it is your first time (in every respect), she can make adjustments to how she approaches the encounter, for both your benefit and hers.  Also, I'm sure that there are providers out there who would prefer a more experienced client, thus this would give them the opportunity to politely decline (and maybe even recommend someone else she knows) without causing undue emotional distress, or worse, a scene.

Basically, be upfront and honest.  It'll pay off in the end.

The thing providers worry about the most is the discussion of sex acts and money.  There shouldn't be a problem with saying "I've never had a serious girlfriend before."

So yeah, question.

It's not like it wouldn't be obvious mid session, but it would make me feel awkward because I don't know if they are ok with that or not? What is the general consensus? Do they mind?

And I want them to know before I show up, so that's another problem because in their efforts to avoid LE they say they don't talk about details over phones, but I don't want to show up and have to say "oh yeah by the way I'm a virgin"

So what do I do? Should I just not mention it, advice before hand or on the spot?  One of them said that I could email her to ask questions that involve "details" I guess I could do that?

that doesn't mean she won't see you all depends on how she feelsabout newbies and the info you can supplyto satisfy her screening requirements.
I see newbies who can be verified. Everyone was a newbie once.

Generally speaking I would say yes.  Some providers prefer phone, others email.  In either case you can slip it in.  Mention it discreetly.  You could say something like "I'm VERY much a newbie."  And certainly if a provider asks if you are new to hobbying it's a perfect chance to respond "I'm new to all of this."  That should be a clue.  

Good luck!

I told her it was my first time doing this... made the whole encounter go much smoother as I definitely had nerves and she was able to help address that.  

I told my first Provider I was a newbie. We emailed, chatted on the phone a couple times. I booked a two hour appointment.  She has been in the biz for a long time and we had a blast. First 40 minutes or so we just had a drink, kissed and talked.  Then the real fun began. Time ran over and she didn't care.  We hung out, I left. She texted me later to make sure I got home okay.  Sweet, sweet lady.  She gave me a reference and now I'm golden.

has been around a while.  A well-reviewed lady who is experienced will be able to cater to your newness and help you relax and enjoy your time with her.  You will need VIP to read the details in reviews.  Most of these ladies who are adept at braking in your hobby cherry are towards the MILF age range (upper 30's to 40's).  Not many, if any, young 20's who have the skills to take good care of a newbie.

Also, I would recommend a minimum of a 90 minute appointment.

Good luck.

If it's your first time then you have no reviews and no references. She has no way to verify you if you are LE, dangerous, or a rip off. If she does NOT ask for any references or anything along those lines I would think serious about seeing her. She could be LE...or just careless about her safety and yours.

Granted she asks for some verification she would KNOW it's your first time. Some ladies do not see "newbies" because of the lack of references. I would inquire with ladies whether or not she sees new hobbyists. If her answer is "yes" don't be suprised if she asks for some way to verify you. (example-she wants to see your driver's license or passport or wants your work information as well as your home phone number.) If she does NOT ask for anything and agrees to see you please refer to my first paragraph I wrote above. I would stick to reviewed ladies who cater to newbies. I'd also stay away from "cheaper" ladies on BP. I mean cheap as in less than 150/1hr.(these ladies tend to be into drugs or be older and they also usually do not screen)

Stay Smart and SAFE!

I had my first last month, and I told her in our phone conversation that was part of the screening.  She definately took control because it was obvious I had no clue.  As someone else recommended, I booked 2 hrs, and that allowed for some get to know you time.

Or if she doesn't know ahead of time that you are a "newbie", you're being uncomfortable in the situation may come across as something else to her, and make her uneasy. I always like to know if a guys new to this, otherwise I'm wondering why he's so nervous, and it puts me on edge.

Be discreet but let her know -- it makes the difference between an approach that will turn you on ... or turn you off.

Yeah, it's already taken care of... she was good, looked amazing.  I was so nervous though, the whole way through.