to have her come directly to my room. If I am meeting her outside, I would avoid meeting someone in the lobby and bringing them directly to my room right away. I would rather meet at a bar or coffee house off the hotel premises and then come back to room with her.

Not sure what shaving and good reviews have to do with outcall. Not making link there.

Anyone can advertise: (scams, bait and switch, pimps, etc.)
Well reviewed, yes, or at least referred by someone you trust. You want someone reputable, and you want someone who most likely will show up. If she "no shows" you are out the cost of the hotel. Doesn't mean a well reviewed lady would never pull a no show, but it is a lot less likely, and you can get a sense of her reputation from reviews.

I do hotel outcalls and usually just have the lady come straight up to the room. Exception would be if the elevators have security or key access, then you will need to meet her downstairs. Another case is if you wish to meet briefly for drinks or something in the hotel lounge or a public place nearby, then you can meet there, and go to the room together. But generally if she can get through the lobby and to your room without drawing attention then it is probably best to just have her come straight up.

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A lot of hotels have "cancel by" policy. You need to know what the policy is.  So lets say I am booking a room at Marriott and the policy states that I can cancel by 5:00 P.M. without incurring any costs associated with booking.

Make sure you schedule your appointment for the afternoon (around 3:30 or 4:00), if you can and have the flexibility. If the girl no-shows you simply call the hotel and cancel the room. Now you need to make sure that you don't check in the hotel, otherwise the hotel may not honor your request. Also, this would almost force you to meet her outside at a bar or a coffee house, so you should be OK with that.

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1) Def have her come to your room. Attract the least amount of attention to yourselves

2) make sure she calls you when she gets to the hotel so you can be near door and open immediatley when she knocks. DONT make her wait there, as it will make her very nervous, and thats not good.

3) If your session is 3+ hours, some food should be offered. Cheese/fruit plates always work great. 5 hours or more and two meals should be included maybe apps when she gets there and a full meal at the end. Read the ladies website thoroughly. Some ladies have certain requests for meals plainly written on their sites and some request that they be taken out or there is an upcharge.

4) Have her prefered beverage waiting. Dont guess. Some women dont like champagne. The ones that do though, some prefer sweet, some prefer dry. Others dont drink red wine. Some dont drink at all. Dont be afraid to ask.

5) Have chilled bottled water for the lady regardless. At the end of the session many love to take one with them for the ride or they may be thirsty and havent had a chance to drink any before they arrive.

6) Be patient with her. Dont expect her to be exactly on time so factor that in. Most ladies, in my experience are about 15-20 minutes late for outcall but tie ups, rush hour, her getting lost, running late due to "life happens" stuff can easily push that to 30-45 minutes or longer.

7) For longer sessions, give her some time to check her email/phone for 5-10 mins halfway thru. Many will turn you down but they will appreciate your offer.

8) If the session is longer than 1 hour, give the lady some time to get acclimated to the room, you, her surroundings, etc. before you "start." A good rule of thumb is 5-10 minutes per each hour you will spend together, but thats just a rough estimate and each lady is different.

9) One last thing. Several women prefer the food and beverages be opened in their prescence. RESPECT THIS request fully! They may have had an incident in the past. they may have heard someone that has. Just respect it.

10) Use an upscale hotel as you can afford with a large lobby, no key needed for the elevator and one with easy parking.

Have a great time!

REM
NEVER let anyone else use your room--you are responsible for whatever they might do.

NEVER drink anything unless it comes from a sealed continer you watch being opened.

Anything you offer her must also be in a sealed container she can open.

Leave the bathroom door open; have a towel, soap, sealed toothbrush, sealed tooth paste and floss set up and tell her you prepared the bathroom for her incase she wants to fresehen up. If there is a perfume you love, include that in the set up. Checking to make sure there isn't anyone hiding in the bathroom is at the top of the safety list.

After she is done, thoroughly wash your hands with the bathroom door open, walk out drying your hands with a towel.  This demonstrates your hands and fingers are clean in the event your fingers go any where not-clean might be a problem.

If there is a closet, door open, chair near it--indicate she can hang anything she likes up.  Checking the closet for someone hiding in there is top safety.

The room might not have any glass glasses or real coffee cups.

Room temp cheese and crackers, chocolate, with wine or Sake is a nice snack.  Since few have ever tried Sake, Sake rangers from sweet to very dry, Sake could be a unique experience.  You'll have to experiment to see if you like a particular Sake, cold, room temp, or warmed up.

And of course, remember to lock the door.  

I like to find some little thing I give as I am leaving or as they are leaving--regardless of my experience.  

Happy Hunting and Merry Christmas

Usually she calls you when she gets to the hotel for the room number, and she comes up.

You always need to be safe and know who you are seeing.  That means you should check her out on TER and do your own due diligence.

If you are in NYC, then do some research on the NYC boards.