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lastcalltofloor 864 reads
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Hmm all I can say is Wow.  A bad experience to say the least.  Unfortumately, it makes
those that DO post on BP occasionally seem quite undesireable.   I wouldnever do something like
this to anyone.  Ever.  Some of us are not here to scam anyone and have NO ill intentions.

Being completely new to  this arena, I cannot get listed with many advertising sites or verification sites due to the fact that I have no reviews.  So, I take a chance and post on BP. I've gotten a lot of questionable replies and I am too nervous to make any  plans especially when the guy wants all kinds of info from me but is not willing to reciprocate.

I sure wish someone would give THIS gal a chance so that I can be done with placeslike BP!
:(

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N4U22194 reads

I got scammed tonight - it was my fault... I saw it coming from a mile a way and too many vodka soda's and my little friend convinced me otherwise.  At least I didn't end up in the back seat of LE or at the other end of a gun.  I thought I would remind the "John's" out there how it happens so they can live to see another day.

Your scheduled provider is a "no show" - not common, but it happens, so you turn to BP for a last minute replacement.  If you are like me, you've prepared for your original date... some wine, nice outcall suite at a nice upscale hotel with some food to enjoy.  After its clear that your date is not going to show-up, you may hit the bottle of wine a little hard (nothing like a little rejection to tip the glass).  You move to the hotel bar thinking you may find another provider looking for a friend.

After a thorough scan of the bar - you determine that its either your hand or a BP girl... hand has no risk... BP girl has a TON of risk.  BUT... your hand is not nearly as fun as a real date!

You find a nice ad on BP and make the call - after a brief moment of clarity, you realize that you typically do HOURS... if not days, researching your desired date, and you just made a call without any background checks?  NOTE TO SELF - WALK AWAY NOW.  But you dont...

You search on the TN - comes back as a scam number... BAD NEWS!  She's on her way - just got a text that she is 5 minutes away.  NOTE TO SELF - WALK AWAY NOW!  But you dont...

When she walks up, She's cute... really cute... great body and face (maybe this is going to be ok after all?)  No big guy walking behind her... I should be ok... right?  WRONG - you've already f-ed up.

When she gets to the room - you discuss terms... but she says "WAIT... you didn't lock the door did you?"  This is translated to - "you dumb FU#(... its time for me to run" - and she does... down the stairs and out the front door.

I'm alive - lost a few hundred... but I'm alive.  I'm pissed at the provider for the now show - no even a call, text or email... after a WEEK of planning the date... WTF!  But guys... lesson learned... everyone of us has a process... dont EVER break it... no matter how much you want a date... dont EVER break your process.

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mrfisher1781 reads

so do a favor for others and note her a a ROB.

Thanks for reminding all of us of the need to do research.

Next time you do have a no-show situation, try a reliable MP instead.

That's what I do and it works out very well.

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Sphinxnc1127 reads

Thanks for the reminder that no matter how loud the little head is yelling for attention, ALWAYS use the big head first.

Maybe a NCNS post on your local board unless you get a very good explanation.

Sorry it happened.

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rightonppl821 reads

10 points where you screwed up. I've probably done that many dumb things in my mongering life. You just happened to do them all in one night. lol

1. Renting a room for outcall with an unreliable provider.

2. Drinking more than you can handle.

3. Choosing a provider in desperation.

4. Choosing a provider with no research, no reviews.
(The fact that she's on BP is irrelevant.)

5. Going through with an appt. after learning she's a scammer.

6. Giving her room number instead of using the two-call system.

7. Making an appt. without knowing the terms.

8. Not locking the door.

9. Allowing the scammer to pocket the money.

10. Allowing her to leave with the money.

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hiddenhills996 reads

and using your ter handle.  When I'm in a NCNS situation, I'll try and contact an escort that I've seen before, that way, she doesn't have to screen me and I don't have to do any research. Live and learn, I guess.

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harborview876 reads

scammers are very good...  they know just when to pull their scam.  Runners are only one scam of many.  Getting too much of the fruit of the vine does not help...
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harborview1331 reads

plans don't work out.   Rarely do plans fall through with Favorites though it can happen.   Once I called to confirm a previously set up meeting with a Fav...  no answer...  Switched to another Fav & had a great time.  I was a little ticked off.  When I did call #1 again, I found out her sister had passe away suddenly & she was out of state for the funeral.  Then I felt like dog-do.

I had a very well reviewed lady who booked a meeting, confirmed the night before & then NCNS.  I held out hope that it would take place but what happened was I wasted a free afternoon.  But I still had the gingle in my pocket so was able to book a lovely lady the following week.  

Sometimes if it seems like everything is going to hell...  call it off.   Go read a book or take a cold shower or what ever...  trying to salvage a day can just lead to more frustration.  One time, I was to meet a Fav lady...  I should have had plenty of time, a straight shot up the interstate.  There I was on the highway when a huge storm rolled in.  People were pulling off the road because they could not see to drive.  I tried to keep going (horny toad).  At the appointed time, I was half way there, stopped on the interstate in the highspeed lane.  We reschuduled a few days later...  I left extra driving time...  we had a great time.  

Patience is a virtue...  I usually keep going just a little too long before throwing in the towel.   Still I try to remember.
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ospectacular35563 reads

One thing out of all respect i feel terribly sorry for you.... it's not fun when a girl does that... and a question i'am a newbie how does it usually work? when they run? because i don't want that to happen to me i'm 21 i'am athletically built and if she runs im bound to chase her and tackle her to get my money back..... the thing is thouhg i don't know if thats the smart move because she might have leverage with a weapon or just the fact that i paid her and she can use that against me or just scream r@pe....... which leads me to my question that why didn't you go after her?

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inicky461022 reads

or your freedom?  $200?  Not to me.  Just let her run off with the money and back to her shitty life, her crack and her pimp.

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harborview1245 reads

I think that tactics are much smarter that physical confrontation.  Be aware that to physically restrain her could put YOU in jepardy of assault or kidnapping charges.  That said, placing the donation further from the door would delay her exit.  Really this game is largely one where one must trust...  if you can not trust her, you likely won't have a good time.   A lot of girls will not start the action before securing the donation...  more risky from a LE standpoint but less risky for her to avoid being ripped off.  Yes, scams go both ways.  
One scam is the condon scam...  she doesn't bring them.  They are in her car, go to the drug store, even drive her to the drug store...  She runs.  If you drive her to the drug store she can leave through another exit or even tell the clerk she's being coersed & could she leave through a back door.   This is one reason why I always have condoms with me at a meeting.  
The blatant runner, is harder to defeat.  A lot of hotels, the bathroom is near the door...  she slips out...  
Still more common is the underperformance, upsell, rush job, one & done...   A well reviewed provider remains the best assurance of a good time.
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Posted By: ospectacular35
One thing out of all respect i feel terribly sorry for you.... it's not fun when a girl does that... and a question i'am a newbie how does it usually work? when they run? because i don't want that to happen to me i'm 21 i'am athletically built and if she runs im bound to chase her and tackle her to get my money back..... the thing is thouhg i don't know if thats the smart move because she might have leverage with a weapon or just the fact that i paid her and she can use that against me or just scream r@pe....... which leads me to my question that why didn't you go after her?

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rightonppl889 reads

I recently saw a provider for incall who had only one TER review but came highly recommended by a friend of a friend who had seen her a few times. As soon as she scooped up the money she told me she had to run down the hall for some ice. I told her only if she left the money with me.

She acted offended, and asked how crazy I thought she was to leave her own room with her stuff. I told her sorry, it's a basic rule of the game she should know better than to flout. She hadn't earned the money yet, so why not leave it with me? She relented and we had a good session.

Since then, there have been two new reviews of her, one a grab & dash, the other a bait & switch. lol

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Dakdog585 reads

Being 21 is no sin...I assume you want to celebrate you 22nd.  If you chase her down, you don't know how much foreplanning she's done (as opposed to foreplay, but to it her might be the same thing). Most hotels have security cameras in the halls, but not in the stairwells.  That security camera footage will be exhibit A in her rape case.  That fact that her 250 pound accomplice in the stair wellbeat the crud out of you becomes irrelevant...no film.  You tripped and fell down two flights...and, of course, your wallet comes up missing with your medical insurance ID, so when the Hotel calls the paramedics, you end up in County with the rest of that night's derelicts...get the picture??  Don't chase anyone down for money...celebrating your 22nd birthday is way more important!!  Are you listening?

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ospectacular35956 reads

you see im not a c0cky person but im not afraid of a 250 lbs guy cuz i myself am 210 lbs and can handle him... the other information is important lol about her r@pe i didn't know those scam providers will actually call rape....

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lastcalltofloor865 reads

Hmm all I can say is Wow.  A bad experience to say the least.  Unfortumately, it makes
those that DO post on BP occasionally seem quite undesireable.   I wouldnever do something like
this to anyone.  Ever.  Some of us are not here to scam anyone and have NO ill intentions.

Being completely new to  this arena, I cannot get listed with many advertising sites or verification sites due to the fact that I have no reviews.  So, I take a chance and post on BP. I've gotten a lot of questionable replies and I am too nervous to make any  plans especially when the guy wants all kinds of info from me but is not willing to reciprocate.

I sure wish someone would give THIS gal a chance so that I can be done with placeslike BP!
:(

Related Link: http://lovelyladycompanion.tripod.com/

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KatieKuada688 reads

You have a PM!

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