but they are good providers and have the reviews to back that up.

Also some gals don't screen hardly at all, and that would worry me, not that they are LE, but that they aren't careful in general and that is not good.

Go with your gut and if it doesn't feel right to you, pass.

After all, the idea is to have fun, and you won't have that much fun if you are worried about your safety.

Should it be a red flag for someone who doesn't have their own website and only has CV and BP ads? I am thinking about seeing someone, but that's all she has. She does have 10 or so reviews on TER, however and is willing to do outcall, which makes me feel a little better, but then when I called her, she didnt do much in the way of screening. Te reviews are all good, and written by some people that have lots of reviews and some people that have only 2.
The reason I'm worried is because its been beaten into me that BP is evil. Am I being too paranoid?

A website isn't necessary.
There's a provider in the top 15 without a website.

If she doesn't screen, you should be careful.
Also, if she does outcall, I wouldn't let her go to your actual house if it's the first meeting.
If you get a hotel or something, that is fine.

having no website means red flag.I know a couple providers who are well reviewed been in this business for awhile and have no website.If she had no reviews and website then I would say proceed with caution.I will say ever provider is different on how they handle screening.You never know how she screened you just because she did not ask you for references.Perhaps she has another way of screening or maybe she doesn't screen at all.
Bp is a site where you have to really do your homework but that applies to any site you find a provider on  Eros,cityvibe,bp,etc.In some cities bp is the only site that is used.
No one really can tell you if you are being too paranoid as you have to do what is comfortable for you what might be comfortable for one person might not be for another.


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BP is not "evil" but it does come with a lot of problems in terms of sketchy people.  Common sense goes a long way no matter where you look!  If she has several reviews here I'm sure she's fine.  She may deal with BP advertising because it is very low cost with a lot of exposure.  Clearly, TER members see BP girls quite often or there would be no reviews of them here!  She may not want to invest the time or money in a website because providing is only a temporary gig for her and she may have a lot of other things to contend with in her life.  I would say you are ok to see her with the info you've given.

many quality providers use BP and CV for advertising.  Regardless of where she has ads, you have to do the research on her.   The key here is the reviews.  10 reviews is a reasonable amount, esp if several of the reviewers have written a number of reviews themselves.  You might consider sending a couple of her reviewers a PM asking about her.

If you have not seen this provider before, it's generally considered a not-so-good idea to do an outcall on the first date to your home.  If you must do outcall, get a room somewhere.  You have never met this lady, and if you don't click with her, and maybe she has a driver, that makes one or two people that know where you live, and she knows the layout of your home.

With regard to screening, just because she apparently didn't ask you for much info on the phone does not mean she isn't screening you.  Providers have a myriad of ways to screen clients.  If you don't feel comfortable with her screening, as someone previous said, don't see her.  

Swim

Red flags would be if you call and a ghetto sounding guy answers - probally a pimp.  Be careful about that.  

A red flag can be if the girl does not have any pictures.

What you want is for them to have at least 1 pic, and when you go hopefully the girl in the pic is the girl that shows up.   If you go there and the girl is not the girl in the photo then you have the option of staying and going through with it - if she is hopefully cute, or if you feel decieved, or unhappy with the deception you can always just tell the girl that she looks nothing like the girl in the ad and leave.  

The best thing is if they ahve a few reviews here - then you can kindof tell if the girl is the girl in the ad.  If she used fake pics the other guys may tell that in the review.