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ron56789 18 Reviews 1767 reads
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Besides being able to identify us when we meet, what are other reasons why a provider would ask to see a hobbyist's pic before agreeing to meet?  Is it a way of screening for race, age, and/or appearance?

LunaNYC See my TER Reviews 524 reads
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I do know that there are some providers that do. I think they offer it as another form of Verification & Screening. If it's not your bag of chips, then don't do it.

laurakennedy See my TER Reviews 592 reads
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I guess to see what you look like before agreeing to meet. Similar to how some ladies ask for a physical description.

Posted By: ron56789
Besides being able to identify us when we meet, what are other reasons why a provider would ask to see a hobbyist's pic before agreeing to meet?  Is it a way of screening for race, age, and/or appearance?  

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 528 reads
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I think some use it as a form of screening, and some just want to make sure the guy in the peephole is the guy they have been communicating with.

Personally, I would not send a picture. I have never had a lady ask for obe but if she did, I would politely decline and move on to another girl.

bludive_1 417 reads
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she might want to make sure she doesn't already know you from "real" life. It happens.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 420 reads
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I know a few women who have this requirement, but would never do me much good. If a guy is lying to you about who he is, I doubt he would send a real pic anyway, and if you are going to waste your time driving out to him or getting dressed for him based on a photo, well I feel sorry for ya.  

If I had my face all over the net, I might feel a bit more inclined to think I could ask for pics of my clients, but I don't. I know the value of discretion and would never send out photos. I had a guy from Atlanta send out a mass mailer to about 40 people with his damn family in it...what a fkin idiot!

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 410 reads
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Still, very few ladies actually ask for photos, and very few guys would send them.

Posted By: bludive_1
she might want to make sure she doesn't already know you from "real" life. It happens.

lisaluvs See my TER Reviews 376 reads
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I don't ask for photos of a gent prior to first meeting and personally don't think its a great idea for you the gent to do. Small world...what if you send a pic and its a lady that knows you in your private life etc. If you arrive and you recognize a lady you are both on the same playing field. I do ask for physical description when I send out references though. That is for safety. If I am told a 6" dark haired gent is David do little by the provider that gave reference and a 5"9 blond gent shows up I know don't even open door. Sadly there are A FEW gents that go to great lengths to avoid screening etc. I have also had ladies send me a reference request where the gent says he met me and I have never met. So gratefully most hobbyists are wonderful but the few bad apples make it imperative to screen well and physical descriptions are part of it. I do not ask for photos though and would not send if I were in your shoes. Many beautiful ladies to choose from, not worth risking YOUR privacy/safety.

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