Who has access to the black list? How can I find out if I am on the black list? How can I post my response if I am on the black list?

as long as you have a rep with a number of gals as being a good client, an occasional rant from some gal is not going to sink your chances of seeing someone.

I know this for a fact as I have been in the presence of some providers while on extended stays with them and saw them doing research on a client whose named appeared in a well known black list site.  They were going to see the client despite that and when I asked why, they said that the gal who posted the client is a well known crank and they discount anything they say.  These gals are pretty savy.

There are even cases of gals posting the name of a favorite client in order to keep other providers from "stealing" them away.

In short, listing on a black list is not the death penalty that some often think it is.

Some black list are public some are private. I wil not mention any names as one of these lists actually publishes the real names of hobbyist. As far as I know, you cannot respond.  Now a little unsolicited advice, do not life in fear of being black listed. Be a gentleman, be respectful, show up fresh and on time, with the correct donation amount, and don't be a window shopper or a tire kicker.  Good luck!

behavior is "jelousy".  Guys, lots of ladies to choose from.  Ladies, if you give good service for a reasonable priice, your dance card will not have very many available slots.

All of her rates should be posted on her web site, including dinner dates and multiple hours.  By the time I contact a provider, I know exactly what the date is going to cost me. In all the years of doing this , I've never had an exchange with a provider, like the one you describe in your post. If you like dinner dates, then look for ladies who offer them, that way you won't have to ask her what it will cost and will avoid a confrontation.  BTW, if you continue this negotiating strategy you may experience more of the same behavior exhibited by this provider. Good luck!

No she did not post a rate for dinner date so I asked her what she thought would be fair for her. She responded like it was the same as BCD rate. Because i asked her what she thought was fair I think I felt I could respond with what I felt was fair. On the many occasions I have been on dinner dates the BCD rate was more per hour than the dinner rate. We all have to eat and I don't go to Mickey Ds for dinner. I always ask them where they want to go. As far as the black list I think some one put my RL name on there and only one person would do that. Not the woman I had the problem with over the dinner date.

They were meant to keep providers safe, but unfortunately they have turned into a place for providers to be vindictive. Did you steal from said provider? Did you act violent or disrespectful in session with said provider? If not I wouldn't worry. If you wasted her time, ncns, give her bad vibes over the phone, didn't understand proper e-mail protocol I wouldn't loose sleep over it. A professional companion can look at a blacklist and sort through the bs. Don't get me wrong, those YMMV behaviors aren't acceptable and won't help you get positive references, but really aren't bl worthy.

a loser trying to cover her tracks; " I wouldn't worry too much about it because somebody out there is always going to want your money". He was right !