Are any hobbyists concerned that when they shower the provider will rip off their wallet and id etc. or will let some one else into the room or apt to steal or mug the client?

She's not going to throw her cred in the toilet for a few lousy hundreds of dollars, or whatever.

Still, there are many guys who will keep their valuable locked up in their car (Though if you ask me, the risk of car theft in most urban areas is probably a greater risk than the gal.)

Best idea is to not keep much cash on you.  With credit cards and ATMs everywhere, what's the point?

I'm not being mean, really I'm not, but this very topic was discussed a few days ago.  Because of the nature of its topic, it is insulting to any and all of the honest providers.  

Unfortunately, most of us are quite accustomed to being grouped into these stereotypical, negative, and derogatory categories, of some kind of sub species of lower class human beings, than of those that come to see us.

I'm biting my tongue, really I am.  In the spirit of the Newbie Board, here is the link from a post on your topic just a few days ago, along with instructions on how to use the "search" feature on this page.  Feel free to look up being "robbed by a provider" or "mugged by provider" till your heart's content.

Instructions for how to use the "Search Function" on this page, and every other page for that matter.

Go to the "search messages" box right above the last posting, click on that.

In the "sort by results" box click on the down arrow and click "subject".

In the "search for" box, type what you are looking for, like "robbed by a provider" or "mugged by a provider" or anything else derogatory you want to use.

In the "author" box, just leave it blank, you are searching by subject matter as far as this tutorial goes.

In the "day range" box, it is default set to 30 days, meaning it will go back and search 30 days.  If you want it to go back and search further, then up the number.

Then hit submit.

1). If you are at her "intcall" bring in only your donation, tip (if applicable) and drivers license.

2) If you are hosting, wait till she leaves to shower.

Well-reviewed providers will not rob you, rifle through your things or let someone ele in to mug you.  However, I would not be offended if someone brings their things into the bathroom with them.  Whatever makes YOU comfortable!

those don't seem to be very popular for some reason.

For indepth discussion of this topic see below

Lina

I only see very few ladies that I have screened specifically for ethics. I can trust these women thoroughly.

I don't (and essentially can't) have sex with the sort of woman I would fear to wish me ill.

... wait, my clothes are off. It isn't concealed!

Stop laughing at my tiny 1" penis!  You are SUPPOSED to find it intimidating!

LOL

stick to well reviewed girls and you wont have a problem. Ive heard horror stories from some gentlemen about being beat up and robbed etc... but like was said above... us girls need to keep our reputation clean and SATISFYING lol... so if a girl were to do that to you... she would have to be stupid. Because you would put a review up and she would never get another client again. I wouldnt worry about it. have fun!~

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Do NOT put your valueables in the trunk when you arrive at her location, lest some observer see the move & pop the trunk while you are otherwise occupied.  
I try to arrive early to give a time cushion for life.  It's not cool to hang around a hotel lot & may get you questioned by hotel security or the Police.  So I back track to that coffee shop & return at the correct moment to make the call.  If I was concerned about a new meeting, I have taken my donation, ID and pocket change with me & put the wallet in the trunk before leaving the shop.
I arrive & go in.  If I was going to shower, I'd finish undessing in the bathroom & bring my clothes back out with me.  
Frankly, I trust my Fav ladies & my wallet & pocket junk resides on their dresser, my clothes on the chair next to it throughout our time together.  
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Unbelievable. The implications that all providers are crooks and are solely setting up shop to rob and mug their client is mind boggling. If you are here on TER and are seeing ladies with a positive reputation among the community, you have NOTHING to worry about. If you do not have credibility (including both providers and hobbyists) in this business, then frankly you have nothing. If you think that little about the character of the lady who you are going to be spending intimate time with (or if you are showering at the end, who you just spent intimate time with) and you are that concerned that once you step into the shower, she is going to rob and or harm you, then this is NOT the hobby for you. I will safely bet that most of the TER ladies who are active in this community have more character and class than virtually everyone of your civilian girlfriends.      

Also understand the following. A provider is MUCH more nervous and cautious about seeing a client for the first time than a hobbyist is about seeing a lady. How many more stories do we hear about providers who are robbed or worse, physically harmed versus stories about hobbyists who are robbed or harmed? Exactly, it is not even close. At least you as the hobbyist have reviews to read to get a feel about the lady, her persona, her treatment of her clients and the overall totality of the session. A lady has nothing to go on concerning the integrity and character of the hobbyists other than her screening efforts and gut instincts. The lady has much more reason to be worried about her safety when seeing a new client than a hobbyist will ever be.


The bottom line is trust. If you can't trust the lady from start to finish, then don't see her.

I'm not cruising CL and Backpage for the latest blow'n'go special.

And put them in a place that is visible while you shower.
When you come out, bring your pants with you.
Take only the donation amount and maybe a tip with you. You can also leave your credit cards in the car.

If you are seeing a well reviewed provider, your risk is extremely minimal, but there is nothing wrong with taking precautions.

In fact I prefer  they do that and then there are no
worries on all accounts.

eom