Sorry if this is a question already asked; I did a quick search and found nothing.  

tl;dr - Got stood up twice by provider. How should I review her?  

Basically I recently scheduled an appointment with a provider. Provided all the screening docs her scheduler requested, set a date and time. I showed up on time, but after much back and forth with the scheduler, indicated that she would not be able to meet because she lost contact with the provider or something. I don't know what if that's the real reason or not. So after driving 45 min, nothing.  

Fine. Whatever. Shit happens.  

We reschedule to the next day. I'm halfway there, again, and I get a text that unfortunately, she can't meet today either, she's not feeling well. Again, don't know if this is the real reason or not. Now, on the one hand I'm not inclined to believe it's a ripoff: she's well reviewed, on P411, and I'm not out of pocket any money. On the other hand, I get stood up twice.  

What's more is that the scheduler indicated she'd still be able to provide a reference. When I tried that with another provider, I got a response that I would have to provide 2 more references. I sent a PM to the scheduler asking 'wtf' (in more polite terms) and I get a message back saying that she can't be a reference after all since I never met with the provider.  

So... how (if at all) should I review her on her TER profile? I'm not out of pocket any cash, but I did spend something on gas and time on two occasions with nothing to show for it.

Your post was to long, so I just skimmed over. But TER rules state you've got meet her in person. You can post on your local board and make others aware. However, since you haven't written any reviews yet, I would suggest you hold off posting.

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as previously mentioned, you can't review her.  What you can do is, what I did, when I got stood up.  Post on your local regional board, give details except her name.  Tell the story of what happened w/o naming her.  Tell the guys they can PM you for her name.  That's what I did when it happened to me.  Those that Pm'd me, I gave them her TER handle.  That way you can avoid the shitstorm that might happen on here.

LLAP.,
Swim

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Sorry but if you didn't meet for a session then you can't review her. Some people on here might tell you to post the provider's name on your local board, but these are the same people who would tell you to jump off a bridge. Be careful. Try to contact her to find out why she flaked, but don't expect a normal answer that's believable. Providers pull the no show no call (NSNC) thing when they have a better offer and it's happened to all of us. The best thing you can do is put her on your DNS do not see list and move on. Oh, and she can NOT be a reference since you never met. I suggest you find a "Newbi friendly" provider to get a reference. Good luck.  

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but I would NOT give that advice to a newb without no board credibility, especially if as he says the woman  in question is "well reviewed" It's a pretty safe bet that such a woman will have at least a couple of white knights that will try to turn this around as "his" fault.

Personally if this had happened to me TWICE I would most likely move on to another lady, but at least it was not a true NCNS where he was left completely hanging in the parking lot with not so much as a text telling him the date was off.  

My advice here might surprise some, but I would advise he simply eat this one, move on and find a more reliable woman on which to spend his money.

Is this particular lady part of an agency? It's weird that the scheduler keeps getting everything jacked up. Sounds like either a case of repeated double booking or multiple people are running the show for this chick. So weird.

Yup, I thought something didn't add up, but math isn't my stongest subject.  

I was all set up to see my date. She and I spoke phone-to-phone 15 min before to let her know I was there. At t minus 5 minutes, I call my hostess for the room and there's no answer, no nothing. Called at t = +5'; no answer; called at t = +15'; etc.. As it happens, she also uses a booker so I call the booker to see if something happened. The booker can't reach her, either. Now we're both worried and checking in with each other every 10-20 minutes. ... Several phone calls, VMs, talking to the booker, and I finally left after around 1.5 hours.  

I made email contact the next day and the Provider gave me an explanation (no mention of 'double booking' or 'better offer') and she made it up to me with a 2-fer when we did meet a week later. NCNS, bad; the make-up meeting, GREAT!  

Oh ... so, yes, even the booker can lose contact with her Provider if the Provider is a ditz

Fancy!!!  You made me lol.. you do that do that to me every. single. time....!!