I have read many reviews of providers that I am very interested in but am hesitant about the ones that take CIM.  while I would love to finish with a provider who allows it and/or swallows it make me wonder how safe/std free they maybe.  This would also apply to providers that allow BBBJ or DATY.  Any thoughts on how safe they may really be?

The first is that the saliva in the mouth makes for a very STD unfriendly environment.

The second is that all providers I know brush and gargle after each appointment, thus further making the spread of STD unlikely.

But, as others have suggested, the main reason to hobby is to enjoy yourself, and if your concerns would prevent you from feeling uncomfortable, find a provider who perform only all covered activites, or be sure that she will allow you to be covered.

You cannot be safe, you can only be safer in this hobby! CBJ is safer (20 to 100 times) than BBBJ. Not allowing CIM is safer than CIM. Spitting it out is safer than swallowing (mouth wash will not prevent gonorrhea infection of the pharynx).Not doing DATY or doing DATY  with a dental dam (20 to 100 times safer)is safer than DATY.  

WE can go  further, no kissing is safer than DFK.  Copulating while fully or partial dress is safer than copulating fully naked (reduces risk of MRSA, HPV, HSV)

It all come down to how pleasure you  want to give up  in order to be safer in this hobby.

However, many of us have been doing this for a long time and remain std free. My recommendation is for you to hobby at a level of risk you feel comfortable with. Well reviewed ladies take their health very seriously. Finally, this topic has been discussed ad nauseum next time just do a search. It's the blue box at the top of the main page. In the search for box type "std" and then for days put in 300. Let the TER search engine do its thing and you can read numerous responses. Good luck

that you view as unsafe. Problem solved, next!!!

I don't do CIM because of the risk of std is higher. Maybe I turn some clients off about this but I usually tell them within the first few minutes that this is the ONLY think I don't do