: Newbie - FAQ Discussion : Can I review a no sex date?

duncan8 4 Reviews 1333 reads

posted 10 years ago

1 / 12

Can I review a no sex date?

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GaGambler 407 reads

posted 10 years ago

2 / 12

If you paid for her time, no matter how you spent it you can review it here

I suppose the "juicy details" won't be that juicy, but there are a lot of reviews of women who do not provide "full service" so unless you plan on reviewing a date where you simply went out for coffee, I believe you are on pretty safe ground. No sex massage "dates" are often posted, and a lot of providers will attest to the fact that not all dates with full service providers actually end up with sex.

You might want to give us a few more hints on exactly what kind of date you are talking about and I/we might be able to give you a more definitive answer.

duncan8 4 Reviews 429 reads

posted 10 years ago

3 / 12

Re: If you paid for her time, no matter how you spent it you can review it here

It was supposed to be an overnight that ended at dinner.

jdn29 4 Reviews 362 reads

posted 10 years ago

4 / 12

you should definitely write a review

I'm not sure what the specific details are that led to the date ending early, but it doesn't sound like it ended with a smile on your face. In particular, if she didn't refund you money for ending the date early then this should be considered a rip off.

GaGambler 327 reads

posted 10 years ago

5 / 12

Yes, as long as there was an actual meeting,

It doesn't matter if you met here for ten seconds or ten hours, TER rules permits you to write a review, and it sounds like this a review you would like to get off your chest.

The only time you can't write a review, even when ripped off, is if there is no actual meeting. Things like "stolen deposit" or NCNS are not reviewable. A date that went wrong before there was any sex is a review you most definitely can and should write.

swimtrekr 59 Reviews 328 reads

posted 10 years ago

6 / 12

Like GaG said, as long as

you had a face to face meeting with the provider you can write a review. And def you should label her a ripoff if she did not refund part of the donation you gave her for an overnight visit, assuming you gave her the entire amount when you first met her.

As mentioned above, dates with providers do not to necessarily end up with you having sex of some form with her. If this gal did rip you off in some way, guys need to know it so they can avoid the same pitfall you fell into.

LLAP,
Swim

InspectorMorse 212 Reviews 296 reads

posted 10 years ago

7 / 12

But you can't give her more than a 7 for performance! eom

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Afro-desiac 299 reads

posted 10 years ago

8 / 12

In fact, you could (and should) give her less than a 7.

If you read the performance scoring guidelines, you'll see at least the implication that for a 7 sex of some sort took place. If you go into the review format and look at the performance scoring she does not even deserve a 4 ("she just laid there"). More like a 1 (ripoff).

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hbyist+truth=;( 318 reads

posted 10 years ago

9 / 12

Before you cry ripoff

There is always more to this story. We are not getting the full details.

What would lend me to disappearing after dinner would be if the guy was a complete asshole and I was afraid to be alone with him. And no, I would not refund him the money...I call it being paid to deal with an asshole through dinner.

I would love to hear her side of this little story before pointing fingers.

duncan8 4 Reviews 247 reads

posted 10 years ago

10 / 12

Nobody is crying rip-off

Here's some dinner details.

She asked if she could kill the waiter, multiple times, then does a maniacal laugh With food on my plate, she announces "I need to leave NOW" I got up and went to the hostesses desk and hurried the bill along so we could leave. During a very heated discussion outside, she admitted her assistant answers her email. Even some rather private flirty emails that we had exchanged.

I cancelled the date,not her

duncan8 4 Reviews 342 reads

posted 10 years ago

11 / 12

I gave her the donation for a dinner date per her website

Plus $200 tip for her trouble.

ad4saf8 10 Reviews 275 reads

posted 10 years ago

12 / 12

This could lead to an interesting result

A 9 for "model material", and a 2 for "should have stayed home". Assistants are a fact of life in the hobby, and there are very good reasons for that. But not all assistants are created equal. Locally, there is a well-known one used by a bunch of better massage providers whose reputation is sterling. I've dealt with a different one, who always identified herself as the assistant, and whose participation merely supplemented (not replaced) my communication with the provider.

It sounds as though you were with somebody who totally didn't want to be on a date, or at least *that* date. If nothing else, the review should highlight the fact that the assistant didn't identify herself as such, and all the other unmet expectations 's involved.