I've wondered why some girls genuinely care about their clients and jobs and others just couldn't give a rats' ass and just want to take your money no matter how much it hurts you or them. Some women will make sure things go well and others are heartless stone-cold bitches who might as well be robots or little devil thieves.

What do you think causes them to be one way or another in this business? I think this business is a little different than real life in that it's taboo and expensive, and so there's more at stake and I'd think the girls would care more for guys who treat them well and are compassionate and generous.

In P4P like every part of life, there are sweethearts and there are heartless stone-cold bitches who don't care about anything but your money.
The key to happiness is find ing the sweethearts and avoiding the heartless stone-cold bitches........unless heartless stone-cold bitches are your thing.

No, i am not comparing the p4p gals to fast food businesses but there is an analogy to be made about business in general.  

When you are dealing with say an Indy provider, she is the proprietor of the business. There isnt a management team or board of directors overlooking her every move.

If she is in a bad situation with her finances or her SO or her child/parent is very ill, or she just lost her civie job or whatever the case, this can certainly demonstrate itself negatively in how she approaches her p4p dates.

In other words, she doesnt have anyone to fill in for her if she is having a rough day/week. If she cancels the date, she could lose big bucks so some will go out anyway and not have the ability to screw that happy face on. Others i know, are remarkable about putting bad shit in their lives in their rear view.

The point of all this is that like the businesses i mentioned, no two girls are alike. Each bring positives and negatives to the table. Some are better masking their issues better than others and some you just may catch on the wrong day. But isn't that true of civie guys/girls and civie businesses as well? Of course.

But if you get to know a lot of these gals like i have, like many here have over the years, it is pretty incredible what some have overcome to be very good at providing.

The beauty of p4p is you are not locked into any one girl, unless you choose to. Have a bad experience? See another girl. Had a great experience? See her again. I love that simplicity in p4p and the number of options that are available. If you do even the slightest bit of homework, your good/great experiences will far out way your bad/horrible ones.

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I would have to say upbringing and current living environment.  I have been in the "customer service" all my life so its habitual, in my blood so to speak.  Others may be on drugs or had a unfavorable upbringing.