Can anyone tell me what I should do when a provider NO Showes me?
Get back to me They keep giving excuses as if they are siding with the provider.  Its simple she no-showed me for a week trip,  and I needed to get this out.  Is the forms the only place to do that?

First of all, that totally sucks what happened to you. But who are the "they" you are referring to? Her agency? Sometimes it isnt so simple as she no showed. Why did she no show? Did she have a medical emergency? A death in the family? Some other legit reason that she no showed? Be careful before you go to the boards unless all your info is 100% factual. You could damage her livelihood. TER rules wont let you write a review since no meeting took place. You're angry as anybody would be. Give it time and see how it plays out before you do something you might regret.

stirring up a real shitstorm is to post on your regional board that this happened without giving out the name of the provider in public, but tell them they can PM you for more info.  Not sure who the 'they' is that you talk about, sounds like an agency.  

How thoroughly did you research this provider?  If you booked someone for a week-long trip without having ever seen her before, that was not a good idea.  A cardinal rule here is to never book someone for an extended date without having seen her previously.  How did you know you would click enough with her to spend a week with her?

I'm not excusing her behavior, it was terrible, but I don't think you did enough research.  Sorry for your troubles.  Please be careful in what you post about this.

Swim

A one week gig is a lot of money she missed.  Not calling you before or even after she was late may loose her another chance at that gig, better and referrals.  So something happened,  of course.

Drugs, thats 3 days to week of gaga

Then there is jail or had to skip town in a hurry-- even pretty high rated girls have mean pimps-- we're not dealing with all angels or  -- lot's of denial here.  

Injured.  You cared enough to spend a week with her? Don't you want to know how she is?  Check hospitals, police, etc, but they'd have her real name.  You have no choice but to call her number see if she answers.   Then go to the boards where her friends who know her provider name might want to know something happened to her.  Try her phone and PM first.  If she was never missing, what excuse can she have? It might do.  

BTW:  Some providers Blacklist or say they will. hobbyist who are no shows for a session.  You don't sound that hard ass unless you paid something up front.  That puts a different light on things.