In the last year I have become very bold with bare backs and heavy focus on providers that CIM as my reviews indicate. I have sort of blocked out the HIV jitters had before taking up the hobby a couple of years ago. Frankly, I am still amazed that everyone DATY's -- no way I would ever do that.

Figured the newbie forum may have people that kind of know this stuff: How safe is this kind of oral unprotected play ? Any chance I catch HIV from provider's mouth to my dick ?

Cheers.

Okay .. A little clarification is needed here, I think ...
I have 5+ yrs. experience working as a NURSE, so I'd be happy to help you with this issue!  

** DATY is MUCH SAFER **
BOTH for the women RECEIVING & the men GIVING said pleasure!
Allow me to elaborate a bit further ...

BOTH Vaginal fluids & SALIVA fall into the SAME category with regard to HIV transmission.  Meaning, it takes approx. ONE GALLON of Saliva (or vag. secretions) to transmit HIV!!

Now, the OTHER side of the coin:  Contact with either SEMEN (including PRE-CUM) or BLOOD is considered A MUCH GREATER RISK for HIV transmission (than that of saliva / vaginal fluids)!!

So, basically what I'm trying to say here is THIS:  If you were to list SEX ACTS in order from the MOST SAFE (with regard to HIV transmission) to the LEAST SAFE, it would go a little something like this:

* It is SAFEST for EITHER 2 Women to DATY (Aaahhh...What a Nice Visual!) OR a MAN is EQUALLY as safe doing so (of course)
* Then we have the item in question: **BBBJ**
* After that, there's VAGINAL SEX (sin condom, of course)
* And the LEAST SAFE Sex Act is ANAL SEX (sin condom)

A little side-note:  For our purposes only, ALL of the above acts are ASSUMED to be ocurring WITHOUT PROTECTION, alright?

Okay, just a little more with regard to BBBJ (and DATY for that matter)... IF someone INSISTS on performing BBBJ (meaning WITHOUT a CONDOM) OR providing ORAL PLEASURE to a WOMAN
there IS something this person can do to REDUCE their risk of HIV exposure:  DO NOT BRUSH OR FLOSS within 1 HOUR of ORAL SEX
as it reduces the chance of fresh abrasions, cuts in the mouth or on one's gums.

Lastly, I just wanted to explain WHY ANAL Sex is SO DAMN RISKY (in comparison to VAGINAL Sex)
The lining of the VAGINA has tissue that is made to stretch BOTH horizontally AND vertically.  When you think about it, this is NECESSARY in order to acommodate insertion of a penis!  (GOD, I sound NERDY!!)  

Anyhow, when you CONTRAST this with the anatomy of say, a RECTUM /ANAL CANAL you can see why HIV transmission is SO HIGH:  ANAL / RECTAL tissue ONLY stretches VERTICALLY (ie: length-wise) so it TEARS EVERY TIME something larger than the original opening either ENTERS (as in ANAL SEX)or LEAVES (like with a difficult BM, ouch!)  
This means that there is BLOOD exposure EVERY time!!  And, in the the instance of an HIV+ individual, well... YOU do the Math!

Whew!  that was quite a rant, hmm??  I hope it was able to help answer any question YOU may have had, though!  
if you'd like to ask me anyhitng else, please feel free to contact me directly, okay hon?

Take Care... xoxo ~ Lara

I've been thinking the same thing... I love lapping a nice slit but I'm thinking it is a mistake. Is it something to discuss with girl? Like gee, by the way, are you clean ...?

Many in this hobby seem to focus on Hiv...but what about herpes, Hpv warts and chlamydia that can be transmitted orally?  I know people who have contracted the above through daty or bbbj and some do not get symptoms so it is NOT safe activity, especially for those who have significant others.

Boy's is there a possibility of transmiting a STD.  Yes there is. Local Lady's information is correct.  Tramsmitting a STD through mutual oral sex is very low risk.  The mouth is very low risk.  The germs in the mouth are very toxic and kill most bateria and virus.  Unless your drinking mestural fluid the risk is no higher of picking an average girl who has not been very sexual active and eating her pussy and asshole via her sucking your cock.  Penatration of the vaginal or anus without a condom is just, in most hoppist opions, the same as sticking yourself with druggies neddle. My advice: don't cum via condom covered in the pussy or ass.  The risk, especially if you have a small penis, of exposing your cock head to the providers walls in 10 fold. Pull out and cum on her face, breast or whereever.  Never cum inside her.  There's are lot's of visual games experienced providers can offer with oral play to work two or three cups.  Be safe and smart.

I love getting BBBJ from a fine lady.  But DATY, LFK or DFK --- not for me.

Herpes is possible I suppose.  That's where having a supply of Valtrex might help a little.  HIV is always a risk in anything, even for stuff nonsexual, of course.  It can happen.  The risks are lowest with oral acts, however.