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macdaddy1944 51 Reviews 565 reads
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yes..some do specialize in BBBJCNQNS..they are around..read the reviews and websites..their rates are usually much lower because of no intercourse involved..

Posted By: theonegodd
I am wondering if it is uncommon for a person to book a date for the express purpose of a bbbjcim and nothing else? Reading a lot of reviews I don't see it ever really go down that way and when it does they are sure to point out all the DATY they did as well and that they only didn't go further because it was so good they couldn't help themselves and next time they will do more for sure.

But it never seems like the guy showed up just looking for a BJ. Sometimes... I just want a good long BJ. what can I say. Is this type of appointment something a provider would generally have a problem with? I imagine the prospect of doing that for an hour wouldn't be a pleasant one but then again... I am a straight guy. What kinda reception do you think I may get if I told a lady I met with that this is what I wanted to focus on that hour?

ITAdmin1877 reads

I am wondering if it is uncommon for a person to book a date for the express purpose of a bbbjcim and nothing else? Reading a lot of reviews I don't see it ever really go down that way and when it does they are sure to point out all the DATY they did as well and that they only didn't go further because it was so good they couldn't help themselves and next time they will do more for sure.

But it never seems like the guy showed up just looking for a BJ. Sometimes... I just want a good long BJ. what can I say. Is this type of appointment something a provider would generally have a problem with? I imagine the prospect of doing that for an hour wouldn't be a pleasant one but then again... I am a straight guy. What kinda reception do you think I may get if I told a lady I met with that this is what I wanted to focus on that hour?

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bluepillman460 reads

There are many women who LOVE to give BBBJCIM. It turns some of them on. But your right, finding one that will do it for a full hour is more difficult.

I would say if you book an hour appt though, she wont be swallowing your sword for the full hour. There will be some get to know you chit chat, ice breaking stuff for 10-15 minutes, right? Maybe LFK and DFK to get worked up first? So maybe what you are asking for is really a 30 minute BBBJ which is more doable. Some women even offer a discount for BJ only sessions (i.e. no full service) so look out for those ads.

Also, when you are in the heat of passion and she is going down on you and she says or does something that suggests its fs time (like she goes to get a condom), just say at that point you'd like to finish "how she is doing it now." She'll get the hint. Most women, this wont be a problem. I dont think i would ask her before the passion starts though, being a newbie. But after you met with a woman, it is MUCH easier to go back to that same girl after she has seen you, you have some chemistry, she likes you, etc and ask her openly about your desires before your session starts. Many women ask at the beginning "so, what do you like"? Then feel free to tell her in that case.

One thing thing def you should never ever do. Dont ever bring up this topic before you are verified. Ever. And I would be hesitant to bring it up a few minutes after walking thru her door too. Wait till the passion starts so she knows your not LE, and just ask to finish you that way, like I said above and you should be fine.

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ITAdmin351 reads

Oh I only plan to bring i up with a lady i have seen before. Or maybe one that from her reviews specializes in such a thing. I was kinda wondering, from the ladies perspective, and I know that they are all different. But still several thoughts are nice to hear.

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macdaddy1944566 reads

yes..some do specialize in BBBJCNQNS..they are around..read the reviews and websites..their rates are usually much lower because of no intercourse involved..

Posted By: theonegodd
I am wondering if it is uncommon for a person to book a date for the express purpose of a bbbjcim and nothing else? Reading a lot of reviews I don't see it ever really go down that way and when it does they are sure to point out all the DATY they did as well and that they only didn't go further because it was so good they couldn't help themselves and next time they will do more for sure.

But it never seems like the guy showed up just looking for a BJ. Sometimes... I just want a good long BJ. what can I say. Is this type of appointment something a provider would generally have a problem with? I imagine the prospect of doing that for an hour wouldn't be a pleasant one but then again... I am a straight guy. What kinda reception do you think I may get if I told a lady I met with that this is what I wanted to focus on that hour?

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ITAdmin319 reads

I will, I was just curious and this forum a bit slow.

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crazyshit358 reads

If you want to sit and talk for the an entire hour, that's fine with them.

The only limitations seem to be their own personal boundaries as far as how freaky you wanna get, and their own physical limitations (e.g. you want to fuck constantly for six hours straight, and they are unable to).

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JustGopherIt318 reads

If the lady indicates that is on the menu and that's all you want, go for it.  Haven't seen one ad where a lady requires that you DATY or even pleasure them.  Many guys get off on that, though.  No need to feel guilty IMO if you want to focus on yourself as long as you behave like a gent.  You're the one paying the freight.

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natashalynne358 reads

Doing it for a full hour, on the other hand, can be difficult, so please don't complain if she includes some hand work in there too.


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ITAdmin346 reads

Her comfort always comes first. Part of why I ask in the first place. I would never try to make a lady do something she didn't want to do or that resulted in her possibly not wanting to see me next time.

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Bostonguy57323 reads

It just doesn't make for good review fodder.  Both of my long-time regulars have told me about the guys who only want a BJ and nothing else. Now, for the record, CIM should not be assumed. That's something you would want to confirm in reviews before booking. Expect to pay for the full hour but don't expect your cock to be in her mouth for 60 minutes non stop.

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keystonekid399 reads

or anyone else, just ram it home for the full 60 minutes.

Enjoy the journey not just the finish.

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