Hi everyone, I'm a new hobbyist and wondering how providers feel about taking a shower or bath with clients.  I haven't seen it advertised and no one mentions it in the reviews.  Is this generally not done?

VIP to read the details in the reviews.

I've linked a previous thread, as this question comes up from time to time.  Do you have VIP membership?, because baths and showers do come up in the juicy details section of the review.  If you are only reading the general description of the date it won't usually appear in that section.

Some providers will shower with you after the session, however, some are reluctant to do so before, especially if they've taken a lot of time to get all dressed up with makeup and hair done for you.
As always your ymmv.  I prefer to shower with a provider at the end of the date, and have enjoyed it immensely. Good luck

I let her know what I had in mind when I booked...  it was not a first meeting...  We got all wet & soapy... & hot & bothered...  rubbing our soapy selves together.  Her only requirement was not get her hair wet.  I really enjoyed it & she was pretty cool (because I'd seen her quite a few times over 3 years & she trusted me), not getting freaky about a cover until we tried for penitration.  I seriously doubt other providers would be so trusting.  
We ended up drying each other off & finishing up on the bed.  I was very happy with the session & plan a repeat soon.
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I have showered with every provider I've seen. Sometimes at the beginning, sometimes at the end, sometimes both. Once did a bubble bath with an ATF. Many providers will give you the chance to shower when you arrive. When they do, ask about them joining you. For the first visit they may say no since they weren't prepared for it. (hair, make-up, etc.) But at that point you could bring up doing it at the next session. I have never been turned down.

My reviews and the reviews of others do mention showering with the lady. Get the VIP membership so you can read the juicy details and be able to see this.

I've only been with one independent who showered with me after we finished.  I wouldn't normally ask for a provider to join me.

In L.A. there are a lot of Korean escorts who offer a great pampering routine.  It's exceedingly common for them to hop in the shower with you before and after the fun begins.  Once I took 3 showers with my ATF.  I think that time I booked 2 hours so I had a lot of time for that.

If I do not have anywhere to go after, I am happy to oblige.  However, it takes me about 30-40 minutes to dry and restyle my hair.  Showering with a client, in a shower cap, seems like it would ruin that whole sexy vibe.

I once had an outcall request, middle of a frigid Chicago winter, from a gent who loved sexy suds and wet hair in the shower.  Sounds like fun?  Right?  I let him know that at the end of the appointment I needed time to dry my hair, style it and touch up my makeup.  He did not have time as it would be late and he wanted to sleep after.  Needless to say the appointment did not occur.  Walking out through a hotel lobby, wet hair, smudged makeup into the freezing cold... Not a good idea.

So if the lady cannot accomodate your request, don't take offense.

Sinthia

As ch noted, most of the k girls here in Lala land usually shower with you before and after a session. They put their hair up in a clip and use a hand held shower spray so they don't get their hair wet. They soap you up and then generally rub themselves all over you. They then rinse you off and this is usually followed by them kneeling in the shower and giving you a preview bbbj. I think the main worry the busier ones have is keeping their skin from getting too dried out.