I had such a good time with one provider that I scheduled a second date with her..I was so disappointed with her! I got an email from an another noob and he told me "he has found it's rare to get the same experience twice, with any of these girls, they always overdo it a little the first time, and you can get disappointed when you go back."
My question to ththe board is.."is this true?"
Is upselling common practice with Providers?
Thank you in advance

Normally, with a bit of familiarity, your time with a lady will get better, if anything. If I had to guess, I'd say she was having a bad day. We all have them, but if it affected you that much, put it behind you and find another lady. Then, go back and see her again. Don't let one bad experience sour you on return visits. You'll be missing out on some great lovin'.

And this is not upselling. Upselling is when you've already paid a base rate to the lady, and she charges you extra for each activity.

Thank Hungry good to know...She told me she had time for me and then rushed me out 10 min. early

oops thanks fischer

I think you need to explore whether you're the kind of guy that likes repeat visits or one-offs. In some cases, I find that no matter how good the session is, the repeat is different and sometimes disappointing. It's more in my head than in the performance. There's something about the novelty of a new encounter that can be an incredible high. Sometimes it's best not to go back and spoil the incredible memory.

OTOH there are huge advantages to steadies or ATF's. They are often easier to schedule. And you can explore a different kind of intimacy.

So it's a combination of the right kind of provider and your approach to the situation that makes for a good repeat visit. Most of the providers who post on this board are independents who cultivate a group of steady clients. But the wider world of escort services has many younger providers who mostly see clients a single time. Over time you'll discover which you like.

In my experience, while there is an unmistakeable rush at first "conquest", if it was good the first time, it gets better as one learns each other's bodies.  

What you describe as "being rushed" was probably an attempt to fit in a return visit on short notice.  It's unfortunate that she allowed it to interfere with your time together.  When I try to work things out on short notice, it's not the best experience.
In one case the weather deteriorated, traffic came to a stop on the expressway...  I called her from the stopped high speed lane & we rescheduled.

I try to book a day or 2 in advance...  confirmed by phone the morning of or 1-2 hours before...  what ever she says.

Being rushed or clock watching is not good.  The best ladies DO manage their time but never let you know.  

Think about where you fit into this spectrum & you might decide to see her again...  now or later.  Or you might consider seeing someone else now & check back with her in the future.
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Thanks bbbmmm22:  Those are all things to remember(very insightful) Being a noob and just getting out of a marriage(Maybe I just got used to consistency/repetition) and being relaxed and comfortable is good for this Noob...I just didn't think that I would be slid into a narrow time slot and she wasn't as "sweet smellin" as the first time...That all I was wondering

Thanks SKB: I think your right...she is new at providing and the better she gets at it the better she can manage her time. I think I will take your advise and give it a rest and check back in a few weeks/months -she is a sweetheart (just to new at the game)

First off, a little bit of a correction.  Generally I think the term, 'upselling' is used around here to refer to the practice of promising that the advertised rate  covers 'Everything', then when the action begins the provider claims, "That was only to get me in the door.  If you want me to remove my right glove, it will cost $25 more.  If you want to kiss, that will be an additional $100," etc.

I think everybody understands what you are getting at here.  You're saying you got the provider's absolute best the first time around, then when she got the repeat visit, she delivered a little less.  Is that it?

Well, in my somewhat limited experience with repeats, I have had this experience from one out of three providers with which I have repeated.  The other two were amazing in the multiple repeat sessions and they became two ATFs.  The other, though, was a big disappointment.

She was fabulous the first time around.  I was suprisingly pleased because she was so new that she didn't have any reviews when I booked the appointment.  I repeated when she came back through town months later.  The second session certainly lacked the passion and fun of the first.  Much more mechanical and rushed.  And this was with a 1.5 hour date (I figured I needed extra time after such a great first impression.)

My analysis: she became jaded.  And quickly at that.  I didn't post a second review because I figured it might have been an off night for her, or maybe I somehow contributed.  Funny thing is, another reviewer posted a second review of her a week or so later.  He had a very similar let-down experience with her.

Could be an off night.  Could be a case of too high expectations on your part.  Or maybe she has lost that eager enthusiasm she had your first time around.  Just some possibilities.

But, I will say this.  Usually, if you find a provider that you want to repeat with, you should go for it.  With some, it definitely gets better with familiarity.

If you're just getting out of a marriage, it might be especially important to start by playing the field with your hobbying - if your pocket book and local market will support it. You want to avoid the trap of falling into a rebound relationship with a provider. Those get really screwed up. Play the field. Fuck around. It's a better way to get a feel for hobbying and keep your balance.

It depends on how professional the provider is.  If for some reason, she had a bad day/or experience prior to you.  A stable provider can "focus" on the next customer but because GFE/PSE requires so much of you indiviual emotion (even its acting) thay where you get the popular phrase YMMV, because you know it a bad day for her.  

Thanks dblhappy: Thats one thing I love about the Newbie board...So many people give me Great info! Some other Noob told me that upselling was "promising one thing and not delivering" and a previous poster informed me of the true definition of "upselling" (Thanks for taking the time to explain it to me without slammin me!) As for the provider..Who knows what happened..I can guarantee it will not happen to me again! I can pay a lot less to get rushed through a one hour session

Yep..I know your right- Its just hard to jump in with both feet when you are clueless like me! At least if finally pulled the trigger instead of just talking bout it like some guy do. I'm not scared to "fuckin around" just feeling it out. I already got the "approval" from 2 providers that I passed there screening process. It just takes time to pass there process when your a Noob like me! Thanks for the info bbbmmm22

Thanks Wizard: I see you only have two reviews just like me so...you know how it is out there

I've actually had the opposite experience before.  I remember seeing a girl the first time and I didn't think she was all that great but decided to see her a second time and she absolutely blew my mind...I've since had some of the best sessions ever with this girl and the first time wasn't all that good.  Go figure. YMMV

As far as upselling...most reputable, well reviewed girls won't upsell.

I have seen one lady almost weekly for the past year.  The experience is different each time.  Some are better than others, we are both human. Over all, if it was ever to be "disappointing" I would not keep going back. In fact I like seeing them more than once, it is more relaxing the second time.

On a side not, if she is up-selling you, move an. In this little hobby of ours, Full Service means just that.  You don't have to pay more to get your gas pumped for you.

JMHO

I had a third date this evening with a lady whom I previously reviewed, and I was NOT disappointed.  If you are meeting the right ladies, it gets better each time you meet them again!

Upselling?  Not with any lady I have ever met with.
If you are experiencing this, break it off, and move on!