Twice now I've called a reviewed provider. I set up appointments 60-90 minutes after the phone call & both appointments were accepted.
First one had me go to a hotel. When I arrived & called to say I was there - 'click!' & wouldn't answer my call.
Second said to call when I arrived at an exit for further directions to her house. She never answered the phone or returned my call.
So both times I made, what I feel, are proper arrangements with reviewed providers & wasted my time. Its aggrevating to get all spiffied up for a 'date' - drive 20 miles & have it blow up in my face.
So what did I do wrong or What AM I doing wrong?
You have a lot of good posts so I'll value your input.
None of us heard the conversations you had with these ladies so it's hard to say. You may be saying something to give them the impression that you are LE. How well reviewed are these gals? Honestly, it doesn't sound like you were screened by either of them based on your description of the events. Girls who say "come on over" will often have another guy sneak in ahead of you. Yes, some ladies double book to try and counter-act no shows.
Booking an appointment with a legitimate and well reviewed provider is usually a bit more of a process than what you are describing in your post.
Make sure the lady screens you. If she doesn't then expect what happened to you. You say she was well reviewed. If you have VIP here make sure you read the entire review. Read the newbie manual front/back and make sure you say nothing in your emails or conversations to make her think you are LE.
Even though I do these things, about a month ago I had the same thing happend to me twice in the same week. I was pissed as one appointment took me a 1 hour one way trip to get there. Of the two one did finally call and apologized and had had kid problems. She saw me later in the week and greatly reduced her fee to make it up to me.
My experience in the hobby has taught me that we are not immune to being stood up from time to time.
I'm not sure where you found your ladies but best bets are not on TER..You didn't get robbed or busted which could have been the case.
Start your search over and check out the TER data for ladies in your area...Be sure they have over 5 reviews and are recent..Now start calling.
Another avenue would be a legit agency and there are some listed here. They may also post on your local board..Go ahead over to that area and check it out.
Trust is so important here and many ladies are being very careful these days..Your a newbie so be ready to answer each and every question honestly but be sure whoever is asking those questions is experienced..Check out her reviews
I don’t have 5 or more reviews he re do to the fact that reviews are constantly rejected and I have been in this for 3 years and my reviews on other boards are impeccable as well as here on TER also TER is not the end all for reputable providers. Also I don’t have 30 reviews a month because I don’t want them . Every provider is different in regard to this as in screening. So please don’t look at just one factor. Like they say to the home work All of it. Lol Just a thought. Cheers Livie.
It seems like you've done nothing wrong, but theres always 2 sides to a story,I'm really sorry this happened to you, i really am, but this happens to us all the time, so join the club. But unlike Hobbyists here, when we Providers mention it we get chastized for it! This is a terrible practice some Providers fall into and it shouldn't be acceptable because it's just wrong and shows no respect, and if you were to post this in a "Hobbyist or Gentlemens" area and mention a name of that Provider in that private area, maybe her phone would stop ringing and wake her up a bit! and again, i'm sorry this happened to you! It's NOT my practice and it's not the practive of most of the great experienced girls here as well. Jay
and make a date with a lady who has multiple reviews from established reviewers. Be prepared for some screening. It sounds like you found some girls who are inexperienced in being providers. You deserve to be treated better!
Some good advice on this thread but knowing that these things DO happen to everyone makes me feel a lot better!
And while I have been keeping my interests to reviewed providers, I think the next call I make I'll try & have more dialogue. No, there wasn't much conversation other than time & meeting instructions so that probably wasn't in either parties best interest.
Lastly, the rush is over & I'll do some better research in the future.
Some good advice on this thread but knowing that these things DO happen to everyone makes me feel a lot better!
And while I have been keeping my interests to reviewed providers, I think the next call I make I'll try & have more dialogue. No, there wasn't much conversation other than time & meeting instructions so that probably wasn't in either parties best interest.
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