That is going to be different for every lady and I hardly think their way of verifying/background checking etc. you or any other client will be posted on here for prying/unwanted eyes to view and take notes about....at least no provider with common sense would.

Each lady will have her own resources & methods, none of which should be posted on a public forum.  They are for her protection & ultimately for ours.  WE educate ourselves, research a provider, look at her site, then read her complete reviews (need VIP for this last).  It helps if a lady is flexible as some are retired & self-employed & will not have employment referances.  
Occasionally a provider might ask to see your Id on arrival to confirm that you are the person she's verified.
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