How many of you trust these sites? Like I know some of you on here must be lawyers, doctors, or have some important profession that would be ruined if anything were to go really wrong.

Do you trust sites like datecheck and p411 or do you just try to get references from women you've seen to get around using sites like that? I'm just looking for different perspectives on the subject and if it's worth registering into one of those sites. Because if you see a provider longer than 6 months some of them won't accept it as a reference..

Pretty new to this myself, but it seems most, if not all of the decent, trustworthy, reputable providers are on either TER, DC or P411, and quite a few are on all three.

I have read loads of reviews since I joined TER last month, and generally if you book the ladies on these three main sites, you should have little or no problems.

Backpage is a complete no no for me. I have read to many reviews where different ladies turned up to those in the ads. Pimps/drivers knocking on the door as soon as the girl has your money, and a few more scary stories.

Personally if a provider is not on TER, DC or P411, and does not have her own website, I move on swiftly.

First of all, they are just sites to verify clients.  There is nothing illegal in what they are doing.  In addition, their servers are not in the US, which makes them safer for the guys and gals that use them.  For guys starting out, P411 allows the providers to indicate if they are newbie friendly on their profiles.  This can be a big help for guys with no references.  Once you have established yourself as a safe hobbyist, I think they become less needed for references.  However, I do belong to both DC and P411 with lots of references on both, it can't hurt to have them.

Swim