When I discovered TER, I did the same routine. After years taking chances in the wilderness meeting real providers created such a rush that I spent 10+ grand in a week. You will learn to pace yourself and pick top flight ladies without going broke.

an empty wallet has a profound effect on reducing the amount of hobbying one does.

It's nature's way of saying, "Give it a rest."

If pot leads to heroin,

What do bbbjs for sale lead to?

You have to becareful with that bro. When I first started hobbying I was hitting everything that looked good in the BWI area. Until one nite I was paying some bills, and just out of curosity I added up how much I spent on each session I ad.

When I saw the amount I had spent, my throat started to hurt, because I was so shocked.  I took a 3month break from hobbying, and now I may see a provider once every two weeks. I'm about to post a blog on some rules I have now when hobbying.

I know it hard bro. You just have to pace yourself now. Just dont start doing anything funny, like trying to snatch the money and run, paying with fake cash, or forcing yourself on a provider (rape).  Because you could get yourself arrested or killed.

Sorry,

But it is to late for you, I must remember to warn the next guy.

...when you book to see another provider instead of sending the car payment out on time, or you borrow from the kids college fund to fund another orgasm promising to put it back someday soon.

Don't let that happen to you.

All of us are horny.  In spite of that, all of us are responsible to maintain self-control and self-discipline, including you.  That's part of being a man.  Never forget that!

She told me I would enjoy the hobby more if I stopped jerking off, so I did. Got incredibly horny, blew a month's budget in a week, and still wanted more.

So then I decided to go down market. screw as many ladies as I could for as little money as possible. Nothing, but nothing cures uncurbed lust better. Got to the point where I was asking myself why I was even doing this. Then I saw a good provider, had a great time, and realized I need to pace myself, one wonderful experience every week or so is just fine.

By the way, this was over the last month, so we will see how long I keep to my new resolution. But I do stand by the suggestion - find the cheapest providers you can that are reliable. Ignore their performance scores (me, I picked ones that looked okay), spend some time with indifferent women who won't kiss you, have no interest in you or your dick and no interest in pretending they do, just want to hop on, go 100 miles an hour, get you off and out fast. That will make you slow down and look for fewer, better, experiences, at least for a while.

And if you find yourself wanting to see lots of ladies, can't resist, go back and do it again. It is called aversion therapy and it usually works.

Zig

When I started I went through $10 grand in 3 months - Eliott Spitzer's $80grand a year is completely understandable.   I was raising lots of eybrows by volunteering for every business trip in the office.  I ended up scaring the shit out of myself when I looked at my finances.  I am just returning after a two year break.  What hurt me most was making multiple appointements thinking at least 1/2 would cancel.  It never worked out that way and I was seeing twice as many providers as I could afford.

There used to be a couple of hobbists when I was around two years ago that were submitting almost one reivew a day.   I wish I had that kind of dough, but most of us dont.   pace yourself and enjoy

too bad. That's just the way it goes..... I couldn't help but giggle when I first read the entry....