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what do you do if you see one of your providers out and about in public?
yachtsteve 2669 reads
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like if you're at walmart or something? do you ignore entirely? send a little nod and wink? obviously this will depend on if you're married or who you're with.  

as a single guy is it ok to make small talk if i see her out?

tonightoutcall1328 reads

You never know, she may be alone or not. Chances are you dont have her real name so any conversation with people she might be with would be very awkward at best. She might not know your real name and might not want to. Most of these women have lives and families outside of this business so respect it. If she sees you and approaches you than its your choice to talk to her or not.

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macdaddy19441537 reads

just say hello and ask her if she would eat you for lunch..

Posted By: yachtsteve
like if you're at walmart or something? do you ignore entirely? send a little nod and wink? obviously this will depend on if you're married or who you're with.  
   
 as a single guy is it ok to make small talk if i see her out?

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LovetoDaty1223 reads

There is no way for both of you to be certain each is alone.

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earthshined1453 reads

multiple times, she wont remember you or want to talk to you anyway so don't bother her.

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yachtsteve1366 reads

how many different guys on average would say the average provider sees in a day? someone who is well reviewed on TER and advertises on BP occasionally. What kind of volume would you say they do on average?

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earthshined1271 reads

you said average provider so tha tincludes BP girls they seem to do more 1/2 hr appointments so it could be 5 or 6.  

some ladies see only one or two but they will disclose that on their website.

I know a lady I've seen before travels and when I first made an appointment with her I gave her a time (10 am and 5or 6pm) and she said she was busy. she only had an opening between 2-4 pm so she had at least one appt in the morning and one at 5pm. during out appt she told me she had one reaaly late that night. For her, on that day it was at least 4.

traveling ladies will have to see more to cover their costs.
 
it's hard to say but it's not 10.I would guess 3.

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Dr Who revived1148 reads

Many guys try and "guess" but most are not even close in their estimates.  And the reality is it doesn't matter as long as you're the only john with her during your appointment.

FWIW many gals only see a few clients per week.  However those may be multi-hour appointments that easily cover their weekly nuts.  Many gals can go weeks and NOT have one appointment.  While the next week they are inundated with requests.  It's a bizarre business and is unlike any other personal service business out here.

So don't get mesmerized on what any hooker claims on websites.  They lie.  Many claim to be "low volume" and may indeed be seeing 8+ a day.  Again, it doesn't matter as long as you're the only john in the room that hour.  And no others are lined up outside the door  LOL

Posted By: yachtsteve
how many different guys on average would say the average provider sees in a day? someone who is well reviewed on TER and advertises on BP occasionally. What kind of volume would you say they do on average?

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robbie532041292 reads

And many "Johns" only have the funds after payday.  So Saturdays and the first business day after the 15th and end of month are higher volume times than others.  I try to avoid those times.

If you're looking for a "deal" with a provider, book near the end of the month when the usual paydays aren't until the next week.  They are often desperate to get some funds to pay their rent and other bills.

Posted By: ChgoCPA
Many guys try and "guess" but most are not even close in their estimates.  And the reality is it doesn't matter as long as you're the only john with her during your appointment.  
   
 FWIW many gals only see a few clients per week.  However those may be multi-hour appointments that easily cover their weekly nuts.  Many gals can go weeks and NOT have one appointment.  While the next week they are inundated with requests.  It's a bizarre business and is unlike any other personal service business out here.  
   
 So don't get mesmerized on what any hooker claims on websites.  They lie.  Many claim to be "low volume" and may indeed be seeing 8+ a day.  Again, it doesn't matter as long as you're the only john in the room that hour.  And no others are lined up outside the door  LOL  
   
Posted By: yachtsteve
how many different guys on average would say the average provider sees in a day? someone who is well reviewed on TER and advertises on BP occasionally. What kind of volume would you say they do on average?

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nahtynikkey1524 reads

There is no "average" and every lady is different. In addition to the poster who states that those on BP usually offer 30 minute rates... that can differ as well. MANY well-reviewed ladies post ads on BP..sometimes weekly, sometimes monthly, sometimes daily. Some cities have NO other options, except BP... so if they did not post there, they would be sh** outta luck.  

Some ladies see only 2-4 gents a month.. others see 4-5 in a day.. others 1-2 a week. There is no average & you will get a thousand different answers, from a thousand different people. Then you have to take into consideration touring ladies.. which ALSO differs from lady to lady. Some touring ladies book 1-2 multi-hour appointments per day... others see 4-7 per day...their touring, so they naturally have to book more/longer appointments in order for their trip to be worthwhile.  

Personally, I only see 1-2 gents per week at home. While on tour, I'll take 3 hour appointments or 2 multi-hour appointments. Again, every lady is different & each lady who responds, will have different statistics for you.  

Posted By: yachtsteve
how many different guys on average would say the average provider sees in a day? someone who is well reviewed on TER and advertises on BP occasionally. What kind of volume would you say they do on average?

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bluepillman1223 reads

We just dont have the info to determine what the average is. If one woman sees two guys per week and another lady sees 4 guys per week, on average, they see 3 guys per week. The basic math would be the same principle for 2 ladies or 2,000.

It is true every lady is different. It it is also true there is an average. The two are not mutually exclusive.

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earthshined1261 reads

of course there is.

I guess the more important thing is the average of the lady you choose to see (if that's important to you)

Posted By: bluepillman
We just dont have the info to determine what the average is. If one woman sees two guys per week and another lady sees 4 guys per week, on average, they see 3 guys per week. The basic math would be the same principle for 2 ladies or 2,000.  
   
 It is true every lady is different. It it is also true there is an average. The two are not mutually exclusive.

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perfectstorm1305 reads

Why hijack your own thread? Why didn't you start a new thread for this often asked question (which has no proper answer)?

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bluepillman1274 reads

Somebody hijacking their OWN thread? lol. If its happened before, I'm gonna need proof! You might have to go so far back in the past it's on TER micro fiche. lol.  

I'm just glad somebody other than me has been accused of hijacking a thread, but I just never thought it would be the OP doing it to himself!  
:D

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agoldbe21307 reads

Whether she is single or not, alone or not, isn't even the issue. Who knows if she even wants to talk to you? Maybe she is at a local supermarket that she visits frequently, and now she knows that a customer visits the same supermarket, too; or maybe it's a restaurant where she knows the owner. Some girls are paranoid about that sort of thing.  

Avoid if you can. If your paths cross and mutual recognition occurs a slight hello at most and keep moving. If she is with anyone just keep moving without acknowledging her

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AlexandraMilw1251 reads

Every gal is different and if a guy asks me (which they have in person) I will tell them "Only you".

When you walk in the door, it is about you and I. No one else.

I don't believe 98% when they say "I only see 2-3 a week".  I talk to a lot of these girls, not talking out of my a$$. :D It really isn't anything for you to be concerned about and it is the easiest way to off put a gal and make her fell like a slut, whether you meant it or not.

 

Posted By: yachtsteve
how many different guys on average would say the average provider sees in a day? someone who is well reviewed on TER and advertises on BP occasionally. What kind of volume would you say they do on average?

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earthshined1472 reads

he does that's why he's asking

 why say it in the first place?

don't put it on the website if it isnt true.

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Dr Who revived1367 reads

I'll be gentle since you're new still  LOL

There is rarely anything TRUE on a hookers website.  Starting with a fake name.

Read the reviews...back channel..do your homework.

To honestly believe anything on a hookers site...you are naive  LOL

You are seeking "truth in advertising"?  :D

Posted By: earthshined
he does that's why he's asking  
   
  why say it in the first place?  
   
 don't put it on the website if it isnt true.

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bluepillman1244 reads

General rule of thumb is to avoid at all costs. That is the advice that should be given and adhered to on a Newbie board. Do the more veteran guys follow that rule all of the time? Ummmm......no.  

I would NEVER do it with a girl I barely knew. Its only happened to me once. I saw my ATF having dinner at same restaurant as me. Waited till she went to the bathroom and surprised her on way out. But she knew I was there, as I walked by her table earlier in the evening. But I have known her for years and years know her situation very well. She thought it was funny. Not every lady will. TRUST ME! lol.  

So, to be safe, dont do it.

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perfectstorm1285 reads

If you are the type of person who just ignores people and walks by, then do that. If you are the type of person who offers a nod and a friendly hello when passing a stranger, then do that.

You mention that it depends on who you are with, but you have no idea who she is with. Even if she appears to be alone, what if the next aisle over is her husband/SO/mother/father/sister/brother/best friend/child/another client, etc? As tempting as it is to try to start a conversation, the rules of discretion in this hobby say it is better not to. You can always text her or email her later acknowledging you saw her.

I remember reading here about a provider who was at the airport with her father, when some client aproached her. She was able to get rid of him by saying, "You are mistaking me for someone else," but it could have been bad. Since the client only knew her provider name and called her by that name, it was easy for her to dismiss the guy as having made a mistake, to her father.

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keystonekid1374 reads

to send a text, unless of course her number is in her profile (less than 50%).

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robbie532041377 reads

I usually hide the contact info in an unobtrusive place, generally the contact for the hotel that I often stay at.

Posted By: keystonekid
to send a text, unless of course her number is in her profile (less than 50%).

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parthree1263 reads

Wisest hobbiests have a separate hobby phone that they keep hidden so they don't have to delet numbers

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11929671356 reads

...as you would acknowledge a stranger if your paths cross. Otherwise nothing at all.

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Posted By: xyz23
...as you would acknowledge a stranger if your paths cross. Otherwise nothing at all.
Totally correct!!  You do not know who she is with nor she you.  You can have a good laugh next time you are Behind Closed Doors.  

After using a hobby phone, hobby email, erasing your history, visit in a rented hotel room...  Why would you suddenly lose all your BRAINS at the sight of her?  Nough said!

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TheSkyFell1259 reads

And you never know who is around the corner or has her in their line of sight.

Always leave providers alone in public.

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shadowryder1116 reads

never approach her in public.  I live in a area where one of my favorites live.  I occasionally  see her at the market, drug store or gas station. I would never, ever approach or even acknowledge  her.  she has however mentioned during one of our sessions that she saw me some where.  as for as how many clients does a provider see-- got to remember that a pussy can only take so much pounding without getting sore.  the idea that an escort see lots of guys each day is just a fantasy

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