To me, professionals dress professional and charge a professional amount.  There are so many "run of the mill" types on CL and BP (not that there aren't some amazing women at either place) that fit the mold of the "college schoolgirl with backpack".  A well-dressed woman with class is the exception and not the rule and if someone doesn't believe it take a look at the majority of the ads out there.  I say go for the elegant and professional look--classic style never goes out of style, period.

While you list your self as working at an upper scale agency, this in no way will change the way men think.  It sounds like you like to dress a little more formally which some would correlate with a more upscale date.   The upscale agencies tend to employee more attractive ladies or models with layouts in magazines (etc).  Personally I found this kind of dress to be more appropriate if you are going out on the town.  Most men are already out in the work place with women dressed as you described everyday so perhaps less professional attire would be a better marketing angle (Its hard not to love a college girl).  In the end it really does not matter to me much how you are dressed as long as it is discrete.  If things go according to plan it wont be on long to were both naked.  If your site shows pictures of you dressed to the 9's, then I don't see a problem.  But if you are dressed more casually on your site(advertising) then you might consider dressing down a little.  Remember you are only young once so if you want to market the college girl angle, no time like the present. I am not sure if this helps or even answered your questions but good luck.

Re: Attire

Nothing wrong with the professional intern look of a young professional.  If I wanted you to wear jeans and a tight sweater I would request that when setting up the date.  Good luck to you.

Re: Attire

'Saucy Professional' sounds dang hot to me! Especially with young filling..

I really could care less what you show up wearing.  Can't imagine it will be on long anyway

Re: From a providers perspective

KC,
I see clients in four and five star establishments in the SF area, so the majority of my clients are here on business.
For me, I book my own appointments and know in advance the age of my client, what event we will be attending together, so that part is self explanatory as far as wardrobe is concerned. However, when I am unsure of how to be appropriately dressed, I ALWAYS go professional. You can't go wrong!
You don't want to be the girl walking into a room full of sharply dressed business men with type A personalities, in a hoodie and jeans or in a slinky red dress that could be a dead give away for you and your client. You can always pull professional off.
Ask your agency to make sure they inquire about attire when booking you. And if they can, let you know the approximate age of your client. I have found it to make a WORLD of difference knowing whether I am dealing with a man who is 39 or 62.
I hope that was helpful.
All the best,
SF

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I would not let one hobbyist opinion sway you. I think as long as you look stylish and fashionable you'll be fine. If you're marketed as GFE, then dress like you're going on a first date with a new guy.  A pair of well fitting premium jeans (True Religion, Joe's Jeans etc) and a sexy sweater, along with heels should not offend anyone. A fitted skirt, blouse and heels likewise. A sexy bra and g string also do wonders.  Remember, your clothes won't be on for long. I appreciate a lady who takes the time and thought and dresses well, no matter what the look is. Hope this helps!

or, "there is no accounting for tastes"....

Oughta market yourself with versatility...some clients want the schoolgirl...some want the young professional...almost all want to get laid! All want to have a good time.....