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ATF trouble
Zangari 486 reads
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Let's summarize:

1. ATF doesn't return your e-mail.
2.  When you text ATF, she puts you off.

I think she's tired of you, old sport.   She's ignoring you & banging other guys.  Don't wait for her & don't pine for her--she's not your girlfriend.  Ignore her & merrily start banging other providers.  Welcome to the sex trade, it's not a game for the weak of heart.  It's funny how an ATF will notice when you don't contact her in a while.  Move on & see if ATF finds your number.  If she doesn't, then forget her.  --z  

Posted By: summit_dude
I emailed my ATF a week ago and she is not getting back to me. I know her well and sometimes she is not the best at getting to emails. I've texted her and she has responded and says she wants to see me, so she said she would get on it.

Im about to give up on her.  What do you people think.  I mean if she really wanted to see me than she would have gotten back to me. So im not happy with her and thinking about finding someone else.

summit_dude1796 reads

I emailed my ATF a week ago and she is not getting back to me. I know her well and sometimes she is not the best at getting to emails. I've texted her and she has responded and says she wants to see me, so she said she would get on it.

Im about to give up on her.  What do you people think.  I mean if she really wanted to see me than she would have gotten back to me. So im not happy with her and thinking about finding someone else.

...who knows what's going on with her.  Don't get obsessive about it.  There are many fish in the sea, so maybe you'll find  a new ATF.

If a one week wait has you this upset I'm not even sure why you consider her your ATF! A week is really not that long.  She may have something going on in her personal life right now that is keeping her occupied.

What ever the case may be, you are certainly not obligated to wait it out for her.  By all means go look for a new girl.

Fiend70621 reads

Your ATF sounds like a real selfish, ungrateful pig.  Move one.  You deserve better.

A judgmental, name-calling response like that is uncalled for. You do not know any of the people involved, what their lives are like, what they might be going through, or even how SHE feels about HIM. Not all ATF feelings are reciprocated.

Yes, ideally we'd all get back to clients quickly, but she may have valid reasons for not doing so. Maybe, as the other replies have said, she's dealing with something personal. Maybe she is trying to encourage the OP to move on without straight-up telling him to get lost -- who knows!

I agree with the other replies maybe the lady has some personal issues going on and she is not able to get back to you.When you sent the text did you specify a date on when you would like to see her?If not maybe she is waiting for you to send a request with a specific date.I would give a little more time if you do not get  a response I would find another lovely lady to have a great time with.

Have you asked her for a date on a specific day and time and duration?

If not, then maybe she is thinking that you are not being sincere.

If you have and she doesn't get back to you, then by all means leave her behind and find another; but if you haven't, then try that and see if it works.

shudaknownbetter774 reads

over repeat dating one ATF.  Going exclusive with one seems to get them complacent & lowers quality & effort.  
I do prefer repeat dates but just not serially.
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Zangari487 reads

Let's summarize:

1. ATF doesn't return your e-mail.
2.  When you text ATF, she puts you off.

I think she's tired of you, old sport.   She's ignoring you & banging other guys.  Don't wait for her & don't pine for her--she's not your girlfriend.  Ignore her & merrily start banging other providers.  Welcome to the sex trade, it's not a game for the weak of heart.  It's funny how an ATF will notice when you don't contact her in a while.  Move on & see if ATF finds your number.  If she doesn't, then forget her.  --z  

Posted By: summit_dude
I emailed my ATF a week ago and she is not getting back to me. I know her well and sometimes she is not the best at getting to emails. I've texted her and she has responded and says she wants to see me, so she said she would get on it.

Im about to give up on her.  What do you people think.  I mean if she really wanted to see me than she would have gotten back to me. So im not happy with her and thinking about finding someone else.

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