I have never used such a service before, but I'm thinking of splurging a little and seeing a couple providers while I'm out of town.  

From a man's point of view, should I book one or two hour appointments?  I have only had sex a couple of times during college a few years back and have a lot of personal and business difficulties right now that make a relationship impossible.  Obviously, I'm missing out and want to reward myself.  The sex I had years ago was over quickly and the girl was out the door, as she wasn't really concerned about the finer aspects of it.  What I'm really getting at is I doubt I can last very long and I'm still pretty inexperienced.  For example, I've never gone down on a woman, as the girl from my college days told me she didn't like it.  It was pretty much "lay back" and shortly thereafter "I should go".  Hell, from a monetary standpoint, I could see 4 or 5 different girls instead of 2 or 3, if I just did one hour.

Is one hour usually more than sufficient?  Is that what you personally usually do?  Sorry if this seems like a stupid question.

If the session is great, you can always see the lady again - for
one or more hours.

If the session is bad you will have wasted time and money.

fr

On the other hand, you might want to see an experienced and very well-reviewed provider for more than one hour, and let her add to your experience.  If you're honest with her, not only will she know how to stretch the time and your pleasure out, but you may learn a thing or two.  I started out with 2 and 4 hour (dinner date) appointments, and have never looked back!

Paul

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comfortable with the situation ... In your case a 2 hour will lead to alot of downtime .. which will lead to small talk with you and her lying on the bed, So save the bucks and go with as many 1 hour sessions as you can ... Even with my 20+ years at this I still schedule twice as many 1 hour sessions as I do 2 .. I have always found one hour to be sufficient .. then if you click with someone you can always see her again.

I prefer longer sessions; rarely less than three hours, and often overnight or a weekend.  But then I enjoy the whole "date" thing, rather than just a quick release, so to speak.  Of course, I'd never schedule such a session with someone I didn't know.  Even a well-reviewed and well-intentioned provider might not click with you, and you'd be stuck in an uncomfortable session and out big bucks.

I recommend you do some careful research, and then make a few one-hour appointments with several well-reviewed ladies who look like they will fit you well.  Then, if one of them seems promising, invite her back for an evening.

Who knows?  You might even find MORE than one promising lady, and decide to invite them ALL over for your evening social (nudge, nudge -- wink, wink -- say no more).

Thanks for the advice from you all.

I read through reviews and it sounds as if many guys have no problem getting two or even three SOG in a one hour session and getting their satisfaction and value out of the deal.  I guess I would hate to commit to a two-hour appointment and feel completely spent in a short amount of time, leaving conversation that may or may not be interesting.  At the same time, I would hate to be really enjoying the moment and feel like I've got something left in the tank.  I'm probably kidding myself there, as I've never done anything like MSOG.

Paul, I think your approach is cool for guys that are looking for the romantic aspect of things, and perhaps have a deeper pocketbook than myself.  I'm looking for the physical experience.  I mean, I hope it's enjoyable enough for the provider, but I'm being realistic.  As mentioned, I'm not highly skilled and experienced at this.  I think I'm pretty adventurous.  I would like to try most anything I'm allowed to do and would try most anything I'd be asked to do.  I do consider myself a nice guy with a good sense of humor and some intelligent conversation to offer the girls.  Hopefully, they will find me likeable, if not "not too bad" at performing.

I'm going to be out of town for four days and four nights.  I was thinking about seeing four or five girls and possibly a day or two or seeing one in the afternoon while one later at night.  I do want to do a small measure of sightseeing, but the trip is mostly business and confined to the room, as I'll be doing a lot of computer work.

Am I crazy?  Is it totally unrealistic to think I could handle that much, with one-hour appointments, given my experience level?  FYI, I'm 29.

Definitely one hour. That's all I ever do. I tried two hours once and the second hour was boring and I couldn't wait to leave. It was nothing more than laying there talking and me eventually jerking myself off for a second pop.

The first half hour is the most intense and pleasurable anyway. Save the extra money for another session with this or another provider. I've even had great half hour sessions (though most providers don't offer these).

Since you indicate that you have limited experience... consider finding a lady who is willing to help you become more comfortable with a woman's body, her orgasms, and your own sexuality.  Were I you I'd find a lady willing to help you explore your own sexuality.  Of course it all just depends on what you are really looking for.

Either way,
play safe and have fun!

Well, thanks to all of you for advice.

Last week, I saw two providers.  I enjoyed the second one so much I saw her again the next night.  Kinda depressing now...as I don't know if I'll ever have anything that good again.  

Anyhow, the first night I booked for one hour and I was totally surprised.  Granted, I was nervous as hell and spent a good while with small talk and stuff, but the actual deed itself took 30 minutes.  It began with mish, doggie, CG, and back to mish.  As much as I wanted after a few minutes to attempt an encore, I knew it was useless with about 12-15 minutes left.  

The next night I decided to go for two hours.  I was much less nervous about the ordeal, but it was still awful performance on my part.  We did mish, doggie, prone, CG, and greek in two positions.  44 minutes later she kinda stopped and looked disappointed, as she knew I was nowhere near a finale (and I wasn't).  I think she thought I wasn't into it at all, which wasn't true.  Finally, she returned to some intense BBBJ with HJ, but I actually had to finish off with my own HJ (facial made up for it).  We relaxed for a while and I actually managed a round two in about 18 minutes, using an "ultra thin" cover, which may have helped.  

When I saw this girl the next night, I decided to use a polyurethane cover.  Some say the protection is not as good, but it is supposed to be much better at transmitting heat.  It was.  I performed in a reasonable amount of time both rounds--about 15 minutes.

Anyway, the point is through trial and error I guess I determined that a two-hour appointment is right for me.  I don't think I could be satisfied with a one-hour session and it's possible I might not even reach finale.  That would really suck.

BTW, I'm not trying to boast here at all, with this "post-mature ejac." condition I seem to have.  I know I'm not that great of a performer and I have no control whatsoever.  It just takes a long time.