That's why you should stick to reviewed providers.

The only other thing I could suggest is to inquire about her on your local board and see if anyone can answer this question.

Asking about sexual activities is a sure way to get cut off.

to find that out is to read her profile and reviews on here. If she does offer that (as she should) it will be pretty clear. If there are no reviews you might post asking for info about her (along with a link to her ad) on your local board and if anyone knows they might fill you in.

If we've never met and I don't have references from you, asking me that in an email would probably go unanswered.

Hope that helps

This is why it is so often recommended that Newbies choose well-reviewed providers.  Even experiences hobbiests select unreviewed providers at their peril...  why it called TOFTT.   Even with a review, on a first meeting there is no way to know every detail.  You just have to go in with a good attitude & an awareness of how it should go.  There are too many scams, ripoffs, & underperformance twists to list but if the meeting is not going within certain common parameters, it's pretty sure you're going to leave with at least some disappointment.   There is NO RECOURSE once the donation has been made.  Providers very rarely refund.  

If you can not stand the risk, then stick to well reviewed providers.  Yes, you need VIP...  but the cost is less than a wasted opportunity or spoiled date.
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I just hint to the lady that:  "Sometimes when I visit a fine restaurant after having a great serving I sometimes have the desire for more of the same.  Do you see any problem with that?" They usually understand what I mean.

I agree:
1.  choose someone whose reviews consistently say MSOG, be nice to her and most likely you will get multiple rounds.
2.  ask about it before the session in a discreet way (and I mean in a VERY polite and discreet way, or you will NOT get a response from most smart ladies)
3.  just enjoy your time and do not focus on the number of "pops". If you are nice to her, I'm almost sure you will get your wishes.

But whatever you do, don't ask about it in the first few minutes of the appointment, because it can be very suspicious, a major turn-off and might get your appointment terminated!

I had that happen to me once and it was a spooky experience! I was meeting a new friend and he really gave me the LE vibe! He showed up at my incall (hotel) location and was very distant from the start. I'm a warm person by nature and most guys tune into that almost immediately but he just sat down a foot away from me and started to chitchat. A few minutes into it he took out the cash and tried to hand it to me. I told him he could put it down on the dresser. (I was already getting very nervous at this point.) Then as I got closer and tried to kiss him, he pulled out two condoms and asked if MSOG would be okay. WTH??? So I had two choices: ask him to leave (since he is giving me the LE creeps) or non-verbally direct the action in an inconspicuous way and ease his mind while making sure he's safe for me to see. Long story short, I ended up doing the later and it all turned out great but I promised myself never to do that again; if someone is asking indiscreet questions, such as MSOG, right after exchanging money, 9 out of 10 times it is a setup and you're about to get busted. So as a newbie, beware of that and keep the session comfortable for both of you!

Happy hobbying!