How would one go about trying to find out if a provider does second pops if it doesn't say on TER, or says 'sometimes?' Or even if it it's 'yes', just because she did it once or a few times doesn't mean she does as a matter of policy, right? Can one discreetly ask this question somehow over the phone? Or try to arrange it for extra$? Or do you just have to wait until she's there to discuss it in person. And then, is it something you bring up at the beginning, or wait until after round one to ask if the second is on the table? Thanks.

Nothing is guaranteed in life, however get a VIP and read the details.  If many of the ladies reviews mention multiple pops, it's a high likelihood.  Asking may result in no response... ever.

When I meet someone I usually ask if their energy is up to playing, relaxing and then playing; or if they would like a long sexy tease before playing.  I want to know right up front so that I can help with the pacing of the time.  However, even face to face I can be skittish in the language I use when meeting someone new... at least, until the fun and games are well under way.
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It will be well established if she allows more than one pop in her reviews. You might be referring to her profile but don't go by that as much b/c the first guy that sees her sets the profile and may put in "sometimes" by mistake or only could pop once so he didn't know and just chose "sometimes" as a guess.

Guys almost always discuss how many pops they had in the "juicy details" section (only available to VIP members. If you are not one, it is well worth the price.) of the review. That is where you will get your best info.

If you are VIP, you will also have access to TER's pm system, which you can ask her reviewers directly but privately, if she does more than one pop, or any other sex act you want to inquire about.

No, I would def NOT advise you to ask her over the phone or by email. In many cases you will get hung up on or not have your email returned and put on her DNS list. Best time to bring it up would be after round one, unless she asks you at the very beginning "what do you like?", then at that point she opened the door and you can ask. But like I said, if its important to you, you should have that info b4 you even walk into the room.

A girl always has the option to decide what she will do or won't do with you sexually, regardless of what she has done with others. But she also knows you could gig her with a bad review if she is widely known for being a multi-pop girl and gives you just one. There are no guarantees, but if you do your homework thoroughly, you will be satisfied with her menu in the vast majority of cases and should not have to pay extra for more than one pop

I've had vip before but let it lapse; can't afford on a continuous basis, so I've decided to just bide my time, as I go awhile without using it anyway.

So, there's no widely understood euphemism I could use to see if she's alright with the idea? 'Double dipping' maybe or something, lol.

I'm pretty young, so I don't get tired easily (or if I do I recover fast) and generally make sure I have beverages in the fridge to offer and for my own rehydration. But for someone new, you think it's best to ask after things after we've both 'gotten comfortable' and all?
Thanks.

Speaking in code is no different that speaking directly, either way you run the risk of never getting to meet the object of your desire. While VIP is not cheap to buy it is cheaper than one wasted date because you couldn't properly do your research on her. There are no guarantees it's always YMMV but VIP increases your odds of finding what you are looking for. Even if you have to skip one date to afford VIP it's money well spent.