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They have a Greek girl or a PSE.

I'm newbie and interested in exploring Greek. If I'm working with an agency / booker, how can i inquire which providers of theirs offer greek before the date? Could make difference in choosing a provider if one provider offers it and another doesn't. Sometimes the provider won't have listed on their website about what she will / won't do or sometimes the girl's TER review says "don't know".  

Is there a discreet way to ask about this or proper etiquette that I should be using to inquire about this? I'm worried about saying the wrong thing and either getting hung up on or my emails stop being returned.  

Sorry if this has already been asked / answered. Thanks in advance.

Once they have verified you, they will be happy to answer this question.  They want to match you with the right provider for you as much as you want that.  And trust me, a women who doesn't do anal prefers not to be asked if she does, it makes them uncomfortable.  I will PM an independent who has the "don't know" for anal, and that is rarely a problem.  The communication always includes an "I hope that you are not offended by the question", because occasionaly one will be otherwise.  But they all rather you ask beforehand than in the bedroom as some do get offended, still see it as taboo.

Greek is my favorite sex, but it is not enough for me amy more that a women offers (tolerates) it.  You will find there are some women who genuinely enjoy anal when done right (let her be in COMPLETE control, everything slow and gentle, be exceedingly tuned in to her emotional state, facial expressions, do not make her be the one to back off, know if the situation calls for it by changes in her demeanor...).  It should become more comfortable for her, NEVER less comfortable as you progress.  If it goes from OK to she looks uncomfortable, don't even put her in the position.  Thank her for the effort and tell her you would like to finish some other way.  It wasn't working out.  

I have two providers who play with their front door and cum during anal and it is just extraordinary, much much more pleasurable than when a women is just..again, tolerating it.  I have also trained two providers on anal when I inquired and they replied "I never have, but I may be willing to try after seeing your size".  There is nothing more erotic than a beautiful women saying she will try for you...that is better even than the sex itself, knowing she will make the effort to satisfy your needs.

I have had anal with my ATF maybe 15 times now.  I stopped during a session this week and moved onto something else because I could tell she was uncomfortable.  It is not like vaginal sex, she can't just turn it off and on as she wishes.  There are days when it just isn't there, so be prepared for that too.  Just because it is on the menu, and even if she is one of those precious few who truly enjoy it, there are days that it just doesn't work.  There is a lot more going on back there than the other hole, a lot of day to day variables.  I have now had three sessions where the women said yes and I stopped because I could see she was struggling.  You cannot be a greedy lover with Greek you, that is just incredibly unfair to her when she is making that effort to satisfy you.  

If you are hobbying in the DC area, PM me.  We Greek lovers have a lot of back-channel communication because we are all looking for the same girls, the ones who enjoy it, because we all enjoy it so much more that way.

And again, agencies never have a problem answering that after you are verified.  You are very likely to see a PSE upcharge of $100-$150, and you are also very likely to hear "YMMV" (your mileage may vary - meaning she will be assessing your trustworthiness, there is a tremendous amount of trust invloved in a women doing this with a stranger that you won't get greedy and hurt her, she will be assessing your size for feasibility and she will be assessing whether she feels OK with it that given day). You might want to put the PSE upcharge in your pocket outside the envelope if you wish, see how it plays out, but I have always just put it in the envelope.  Again, if she at least makes an effort for me that is every bit as good as consummation.  It ain't a science, sometimes it will work and sometimes it won't, but her effort was even greater if she tried and it didn't work.  She deserves to be compensated.

Yep  You hit one of my "hot buttons".

:-)

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Thank you! That was EXACTLY what I wanted to know! I am in the DC area and so I will PM you for provider recommendations and advice next time I'm not responding from my phone. Your thoughtful response is much appreciated!

Cheers!

...While that's true with many agencies especially if you have been screened and you have used that agency before. But I wouldn't make that a blanket statement about agencies. They are like independents in that you can't say they all do things the same way. If you are a newbie and being screened don't assume once the screening is over and they agree to make an appointment for you with one of their ladies that it's automatically OK to get specific ie. ask about greek. Be sure to read the agency web site and follow their guidelines. Many make it quite clear that those questions won't be acceptable.  

VIP here let's you read the details of the review. Look to see if greek was part of the session. PM some reviewers. After seeing a provider ask while there if greek is available for next time. Sometimes you just can't find out about those "extras" until face to face behind closed doors.  

When you are just starting out you sometimes have to work your way up to getting everything you want.

On the other hand you might get lucky. There is an agency in my area that states it on the providers info page that she is greek friendly and gives the amount of the extra charge for it.

Have fun & I hope you get all the greek you could ever want.

Posted By: xyz23
...While that's true with many agencies especially if you have been screened and you have used that agency before. But I wouldn't make that a blanket statement about agencies. They are like independents in that you can't say they all do things the same way. If you are a newbie and being screened don't assume once the screening is over and they agree to make an appointment for you with one of their ladies that it's automatically OK to get specific ie. ask about greek. Be sure to read the agency web site and follow their guidelines. Many make it quite clear that those questions won't be acceptable.  
   

Thanks for the advice. That actually happened to me today. I got verified via rs2k for 1st time appt with new service, got my appt date/time set up, and then asked about greek. Was reprimanded that it was not an acceptable question. Luckily they were cool and did not cancel my appt.  

I'll be more careful next time for sure.

If she has no clue what you're talking about, odds are she does not offer that service.

They have a Greek girl or a PSE.

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