Hi All,
 Was just hoping to tap the wisdom here with a question. I have picked a wonderful provider and have a great day planned.  I planned a GFE day with time at the hotel pool in Vegas, couples massage, dinner, and a club after. (This has been a fantasy of mine for a long time, what can I say, I am weird!)
I know it is taboo to speak with a provider about exact amounts so I am curious on how much I should leave in the envelope. She has a website listing donation amounts for one hour, two hour, four hour and overnight. Should I just leave the overnight amount?
 Any advice is welcome. Thanks!

I would NEVER do an all day with someone I hadn't spent time with. If an all day date is your fantasy I would see her for an hour or two, if all goes well, then you can book an all day date as a follow up. You do not mentioned if this wonderful provider has reviews. I sure hope se has a page of great reviews

As far what's taboo, talking about sex is taboo, but talking about how much $ for time usually ins't especially after you've been screened. A simple statement that you didn't see a donation amount for an all day date (guessing 12 hours) and what would it be, should be acceptable to most providers.

Finally you do realize the weather is changing in Vegas, you better hurry on your date, the later you wait in October the more chances the weather could work against you.

An extended date with someone you have not yet seen is risky.  You say she is a wonderful provider, which she may well be, but have you met her before?  If not, I'd do what HH suggested, book a one or two hour date with her before the extended all day date.  After you get to know her, while your together, you can discuss an appropriate donation for what you have planned.  I would not guess an amount, get her to tell you what she would want.

Swim

most top providers have a rate for a full day..overnight..or a full weekend..the overnight obviously being less than the other two..swim and hh are correct..take their advice before dropping a large amount on any of these types of bookings..fantasies can turn into nightmares if the chemistry is not there..always ask her the rates beforehand if she does not provide them on her website..she should..

the others are probably not interested in 24 hour dates, and in any case not with someone they have not met before.

I also agree that you should have a shorter date beforehand to be sure you have some compatibility.

going to cut it for a full day rate with no sleep. Then again, it may just be less lol.  Don't ever assume anything, or she might consider it a rip off. Also, I would never go for such an extended time without meeting for a shorter duration beforehand, but that's on the two of you.

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....I have enjoyed many wonderful multi hour dates/overnights, with gentlemen I have never met before.  The key for me, is to always speak with the gentleman before our date, and to choose gentleman/dates, that I would truly enjoy.  

  For instance, the OP wants to hang by the pool, have dinner, massages, and go clubbing.  I would have to turn him down, as I do not enjoy spending time by the pool, or clubbing.  Now, if I were vsiting him in Vegas, and he wanted to hike Mt Charleston, get massages, enjoy dinner, and jazz after, I wouldn't hesitate to sign up.

  Communication is key.  

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

It's your fantasy however!   You can't discuss SEX for money.   What you have in mind doesn't fit her normal fee schedule.  You can explain what you have in mind, all costs to be yours, and ask for a fee proposal.  
Overnights need to be negociated as well...  what's included (dinner, cocktails), what time frame (8 to 8??) & how many hours.

Thanks everyone. This is really helps. The lady in mind does have a lot of positive reviews, but I think everyone is right. It might be too much for a first time. "Test" run sounds like a smart move before trying to fufill a very odd fantasy of mine.
 Also thanks for the advice on the donation discussion, so I can discuss it with her albeit by laying out what I want and then asking in a non-sex way.

they're good matching thenselves up with the right girl..oh yea!!

many men regularly book extended engagements with women they have never met. In my previous life, that's what usually happened with my gents (I was never available for less than a dinner date, and most of my engagements, even first engagements, were overnights). As she said, the key is communication.

You should be able to tell by a few emails whether or not you have much in common and whether or not you'll enjoy her company and conversation (because there WILL be times when you'll be conversing). And a phone call before such a date is essential, if for nothing more than to iron out a few details.

Research also helps. Maybe you could PM a couple of the guys who have reviewed her and make sure she is what you're looking for. Are any of her reviews for extended engagements? If this is not listed on her site, then, yes, maybe meeting for a shorter date first would be good. You never know... some women are cut out for extended engagements, and some are not. The last thing you want is to get stuck with someone who is used to shorter dates and will just agree to the longer date for the money, yet spends the whole time texting, or worse, completely bored out of her mind. There is a definite skill/art to extended engagements, which includes the ability to talk with anyone about almost anything, and to truly be interested in them as people. Not all women can do this.

But what you describe is actually very common in Vegas. I am sure you will see many lovely ladies by the pool in similar circumstances, and may even see them at the clubs later with their guys. Have fun!!! (You may even want to book a cabana at a topless pool if she is willing. One of the best pools for cabana rental and exceptional service is the topless part of the Mandalay Bay...comes complete with a gent to put lotion on a lady's back, and a lady to put lotion on a gent's back. )

I also have had numerous overnights and 3-5 day rendezvous where I had never met the gentlemen before.
They were all wonderful moments and very successful and I would do them all over again.