Well I'm 18 years old somewhat-shy Asian boy who has this dream about making out with white girls :/

I did have Asian girlfriends before, but never had white ones.. I always got friend-zoned.

anyway.. For past 2 days I've contacted 3 Caucasian escorts via email but haven't got any messages back.  

I didn't give out any of my physical characteristics (except the race and age), but just my contact information and preferred schedule.

Oh yeah about the provider references.. I didn't put those because I'm new to these kind of stuffs.

I'm just hoping that they are not racists..:/

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While I am sure countless ladies on TER would find you to be a wonderful young man and race would have nothing to do with their feelings about you whatsoever, most I am aware of tend to focus their attention more on men considerably older than 18.

I've never had this problem. All Escorts I've seen in the past and my current one have never even mentioned my Ethnic Background as being a problem for them. In your case, you probably didn't get a call back because you have no References. Most Escorts are Friendly towards Asian Hobbyists. Well that's my Experience anyway.

omg stop thinking people are racists, the girl probably goes out with someone of a different colour, it has nothing to do with that.  

Most girls will not by experience see young guys bec they have been robbed by young guys or my experience with some young guys all a bit weird sometimes so you just don't bother.

Get out of the taking it personally and putting the racist card on it, this argument bores the shit out of me and take it that sometimes there are other reasons behind things.

Get a P411 account or something to help you get verified for their screening.
Otherwise references are a must in your case especially.
Maybe even pm escorts on ter  to check who would be willing to see you.

18 year old Asian boy, lol. I guess you have already fooled a few posters.

as previously mentioned, if you discussed your age in your first contact with the providers, many would not want to see you.  

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I love me some Asians!

I've seen plenty of providers who say they are 18 but I know for a fact they are more like 23.  You have the reverse problem.  Depends on your looks, you might be able to stretch your age to 26-27.  That still puts you in that young category that a lot of providers still don't want to see, but it might improve your chances

But under 25 feels weird to me.

Correct me if I'm wrong, but if someone advertises as hot MILF, wouldn't that mean they're a young guy's fantasy?

Be ready to show your ID, however. The LAST thing any girl needs is statutory rape on their record if they find you to be under 18.

While I agree with Panthera that this sounds like a troll post, I'll give a straight answer here because I'm going to give illuminate the benefit of the doubt - he reminds me of me and what I would've posted here many, many moons ago....

1.  No, my experience has been that providers are NOT racist to Asians.  If anything, there's probably more of a stereotype that we're quiet, polite, and have money - a trifecta for the lady.

2.  I agree with other posters that your age is likely an issue.  Providers are looking for a mature mindset, something sorely lacking in the majority of young men.  Prove them wrong about you - if you can write a decent email, they might reconsider.  However, that leads me to point 3...

3.  You have to get over yourself.  You contacted the providers after presumably reading all about them, but provided minimal information.  Put yourself in their shoes.  Especially if they're a well known, busy provider, why waste your time and effort responding to someone who seems sketchy, could be LE, or is a timewaster - especially when you've got regulars and guys who follow your rules and provide all of your requested info.  Most ladies will not reply to partial responses - and I can't blame them.  I was deathly afraid of giving away too much information about myself when I was younger (and more so now with what's been happening with hobbyists in the news lately) but again, put yourself in their shoes.  They're putting themselves at risk on a regular basis - and you already know a lot more about them than they know about you.  So you have to be as open as your can with them to show some trust and respect.  IF you're serious about seeing them, fill out their form - completely - and in the comments section (there's always one) write a BRIEF clear note about yourself and what you're looking for - and be honest.  i.e." I'm a young Asian guy interested in meeting you.  I am a newbie and hoping you would consider seeing me.  Thank you."

4.  The ladies have the final say.  I'm assuming you read through their info.  If they say no one under 30, then that's their right - just as it's their right to make an exception to the rule.  If you come across as a jerk,creep, or timewaster, then it's their prerogative not to respond.   So, deal with it and more on.  There are plenty of women out there who will meet your needs.  Plenty.

5.  And, as others have suggested, use the FAQ for Newbies discussion board.  I see it's not really a FAQ, but you can search using a term like "references" for some advice re: the age old question of how do I see a provider who wants references when I don't have any.  (Just like the job experience issue in the real world.)  Bottom line - look for "newbie friendly" providers who use other screening tools such as P411 or employment verification (both of which will likely be tough with you as well).  Some agencies are willing to work with guys in your predicament - and even give a reference afterwards, assuming all goes well.

6. Finally, avoid the temptation of Backpage.  Did it once at the very beginning of my hobbying days.   I still wince thinking about it.  

Good luck - just submit your story and review if and when things finally work out.  And you're very welcome.

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Try "teen night" at a local club or watch porno or something. Maybe try a strip club. You don't need the hobby at this age. You have many, many years to hobby. At least give it until your mid-late twenties. The only escorts I have heard of who exclude Asians are Asian female providers. Even providers who won't see Black males usually see Asians. Most of the providers I speak to in my area have many Asian clients. It's your life, but I would delete my account and forget this hobby for the indefinite future. Nothing wrong with the hobby, but you don't need it at age 18.

Providers won't see anyone under 30 or 35 generally. This help them avoid the "stalkers" and the "time wasters".  

I was in your boat several years ago. The best thing to do is focus on developing social skills and meeting new people.

Are you going to college? I would try joining a club or a frat.  

You also need credible employment information if you are a newbie. I don't think working the night shift at Burger King will be enough. I am not saying there is anything wrong with working at fast food place. I did so too in my younger days.

Serious, non-judgmental advice: Keep trying in the civvie world for a while.   Maybe your experience in the floating world (Japanese term: Ukiyo; TER world), where no one even knows you beyond a telephone call, text or email and you're not being successful is just a mirror of your civvie world.  It's called "gaining experience".  I really recommend that you put more effort into gaining experience in the civvie world.  You'll still get shot down a lot.  Prepare yourself for it.  Sometimes it's personal but it's also your female counterparts making mistakes and gaining experience.  ("I shot him down. Seems like a nice guy.  Maybe I should have said yes?"

I agree with Courtney I think that's why some providers don't wanna see me and I'm still under 25, heck some like to be presidential and make the mark 35. This is mostly because guys around our age shouldn't be hobbying in the first place, one because we shouldn't have the money and two because we "should" be able to get it on our own without spending ridiculous amount of money. And I have tried, but found out you can't force it it's something that has to happen naturally, and I have no game. Also sometimes we can be a bit more rough. A few providers have told me this and but gladly I have several that like it kind of rough. So it's definitely not a race thing, it's an age thing.

But I don't love 18-year-olds.  

 
I look like 16..so that wont work..