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I have many gents that I have never met before book the first time 2hr+ appointments.
It just depends on what you are looking for are you looking for a dinner date as well as BCD?
If so 2 or 3hr is fine if no dinner date 2hr allows enough time to get to know each other and not be rushed.
You will be surprised how fast an hour goes by do what you are comfortable with and the only person who can answer that is you.There is no right or wrong answer to your question since every one is different.
Good luck to you!

I'm thinking 2 to 3 hours with a provider I'm seeing for the first time. Should it be longer? Shorter?

Thanks in advance.

i always have the first session set for an hour..if you enjoy her and want to see her again you can re-adjust the time frame to suit both your needs..see if multiple pops are allowed..if you are a one and done guy paying for two to three hours is wasting your time and hers..after you her the first time you will know what to do and how much time you need to do it..like they say..go with the flow..

I think it depends on her pricing (90 minutes is often a much better deal, but if it is not, I just do an hour), and how good you are at finding ladies you like. I used to do hours, and had more than a couple of dates when I looked at the clock after 30 minutes and was trying to figure out how to get the hell out of there without being insulting.

Now, I rarely have that problem. I did see a little latina who had an incredible deal for 2 hours. An hour in, I was done, conversation was dying because her English and my Spanish were equally awful, and I was thinking what the hell are we going to do now? Well, we curled up together, and almost fell asleep for a bit in each others' arms, which was very relaxing. Then I woke back up and went to work on her, and she seemed to enjoy the wakeup service a lot more than the first round, as did I.

So 60-90 minutes for me, maybe 2 hours - it depends on the sweet spot in her pricing, as well as how communication goes during screening and scheduling.

zig

If you have seen providers before, one hour is sufficient unless she requires a longer appointment for first time clients.

If this is your very first appointment in the P4P field, two hours is perfect. Be sure to tell her this is your first time. It will allow you to chit chat and relax before getting to the fun.

Three hours might be too long. Longer dates are best for those who have seen each other before since one knows chemistry exists.

Regardless of the length you choose, be sure to do your research and select a well reviewed provider. Choose the wrong one and you might be walking out the door in 30 minutes. Best to stick with well reviewed providers with a solid history.

I have many gents that I have never met before book the first time 2hr+ appointments.
It just depends on what you are looking for are you looking for a dinner date as well as BCD?
If so 2 or 3hr is fine if no dinner date 2hr allows enough time to get to know each other and not be rushed.
You will be surprised how fast an hour goes by do what you are comfortable with and the only person who can answer that is you.There is no right or wrong answer to your question since every one is different.
Good luck to you!

I also have many first appointments that are multi-hour on a regular basis and I prefer it that way. There is lots of time to break the ice and get to know each other.

I had an overnight with first time client who was a Preferred411 member.

"What?" you say! "An overnight? With someone you had never met before?" Yes, and nobody keeled over and died. We had a great time!

A provider who is really good at making others feel comfortable can handle any client, in any situation, for any length of time.... sight unseen. This is where reading each review will come in handy. A provider who never does longer appointments may not be as skilled at making a longer appointment enjoyable. Look for a good fit for what you are looking for. There are often clues in the reviews.

what if, after you meet her, you don't feel the chemistry and you have given her a 2 or 3 hour donation.  The only dates that I have done for more than an hour are my overnight ones.  I find that an hour is just fine for me.  However, only you can make the decision.  Do what you want.

Swim

When meeting someone for dinner and drinks and then going up to their room for a nightcap, a 3 hour date is usually perfect.

You really need to do your research on the provider also. What does she expect in that time frame, is she a courtesan, is she an escort, or is she just a provider.......there is a difference.

I like 2 hours when meeting someone for the first time. It gives me enough time to chat with the provider, become comfortable, and have enough time for all the good stuff without feeling rushed. 3 hours might be a bit too long if things don't go well, but if you do your research you can usually avoid those bad situations.

you need to get over the anxiety issues and relax and two, depending on your age, a 2nd cup may be more likely if there is plenty of time between attempts--perhaps exchanging some mutual massages to heighten the expectations.

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