Why worry about it?  I am sure you ave nothing to worry about it..and it seems like most ladies are married or have boyfriends...I mean I date.  I am a young lady..not married, no children..but I do date...I am human..LOL

Providers come in all shapes and sizes, and from all walks of life. Some providers are married, some have SO's. I suspect that the majority of providers are single, but that is just a guess. It would seem logical the the SO/spouse of most providers are aware of their paramour's occupation, but again, that is a guess. You are correct that if a lady is involved in a relationship she probably does keep that to herself, but not necessarily.

When you see a provider, I hope you are not crass enough to actually ask.  Some providers and hobbyists share details about their personal lives but only after knowing each other a while.

stick with well reviewed providers and your chances of experiencing a jealous SO are very, very low. Even if she does have a SO who doesn't know her occupation, she's obviously learned to deal wtih that, too.

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have SO's.  About half of them are aware of their work and have no problems according to the provider.

As for the remaining ones, I suspect they would be upset if and when they found out, but that's the risks we take.

I can't say that I've ever heard of a story on here of a hobbyist being confronted by an angry SO.

On the other hand, there are frequent reports of wives of hobbyists calling providers after finding out about their spouses dalliances.  Just be glad you don't have that problem.  It is a lot worse, I think.

Take it easy. Of all the things to worry about this issue should be very far down your list. Married or unmarried or hey maybe she dosen't really like men except as customers ...... just have fun. Be careful do your research and do not forget to bring the donation and do not try and bargain down the price. Relax.

some are in serious relationships, some aren't, some are married, some aren't, some date, some don't.

just like real life

we may be providers but that's not all we are. we're functioning members of society with wants, needs, dreams, families, friends and yes relationships...just like normal people

Kisses,
Jenny