I have done many outcalls to homes. I generally prefer meeting with guys I have seen in the past.
The key is to find someone you trust. That is why I urge you to get to know her first. Make sure she is well-reviewed and that the reviews she has are by established reviewers. If you are unsure, PM some of the reviewers and ask them if they feel she is trustworthy.
Obviously you would be single and have no spousal concerns. Just a newbie here looking to take his first jump and trying to fill in the gaps of info that I've gathered from this and other sites.
I don't think I'd have an issue with a lady that I knew well and trusted. I wouldn't ask a lady to come to my house for a first time meeting.
Married guys, on the other hand should steer clear of that kind of situation. Women have a sixth, and probably a seventh sense, when it comes to this sort of thing. It's astounding what they can see, smell, taste, and figure out.
I have done many outcalls to homes. I generally prefer meeting with guys I have seen in the past.
The key is to find someone you trust. That is why I urge you to get to know her first. Make sure she is well-reviewed and that the reviews she has are by established reviewers. If you are unsure, PM some of the reviewers and ask them if they feel she is trustworthy.
The general consensus seems to be for outcalls, do not have a provider come to your private home on the first date. After you have built up some rapport with a lady, ok, but first time, NO!
Better for both of you this way, regardless of your marital/girlfriend status.
I get it. It's perfectly clear. In call is probably best for all on that first date. The provider is on home turf and the guy maintains a modicum of privacy.
Actually, I suspect the best bet would be to meet in a quiet public place like a bar and then go off after getting acquainted.
Having said all that, what about all the providers that insist on Outcalls Only?
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