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Cannonhome1 381 reads
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Could the OP mean arm candy for a gay man who wants to keep up appearances as a straight man?

mssmithjones1960 reads

How does one become a female "walker" for a (closeted) gay man? More specifically, for the executive/ government clientele, etc. NOT hourly, but more of a "lifestyle" escort. Heavy travel is not an issue. Many thanks!

I just going to real life  events buying tickets even for  800  if needed .

if it pays me   back? it is  sometime .. sometime not .. sometime I add one lover sometime not .. it is time consuming  and all about connections .. but Iam here with you and let s talk about that  
 Median of TER gentleman income is  80 000 check it on Wikipedia .. so ..  you rare will get here 5000 even .. I do sometime . 3000 and 5000 but rare . but mostly I am ok with 1500  for all  eve  or 1000  two hours it is more realistic  not just as work   and it is your call  set up it as an hours or gave him all  evening  
 the fact  is most of  them  those gentlemen  do not need you for all evening .. two hours be a lot :))  
it isi what i do  I did PM you:) may be we will go next time together to private  met  events let  s say at  Met Opera .
 and yes gentlemen  any invitations will be appreciated with passion  you do not have to be there a big guest   you may be there  a waiter .. just help to get in :) it is how i do .. have here and there  nice freinds :) all of kind I Loe all people :)all men and women :)

Can you explain to me.  PM is OK.

Swim

check up urban dictionary  
..Walker  stands  for a man  any girl wants  too so i think it is  a  man behind this handle plus  
I was trying talk to  this person in hope may be  we .. walk together to big events as I am now trying do just myself  so she or he most likely it is HE
she or he ?
 is just new and naive .. and  have in her head those  dreams as many of women .men  
have .. find those millionaires who will fly you for  10 000  weekend . ..
in fact for such you have to have  not just genitals but and head on shoulder  and special state of mind and drive for life  
 those are exist ..
 yes  but not on TER as posting .. just reading  yes .. and sometime booking  
but BUT as much as I can be  freinds with  normal gay and share and connect and know a bit about each other .. big ones donors ..  you would know just his name .. that all even email be not always available because or his secretary  handles all and all his cell phone bills goes through A/P clerk .. somoney is good but not rewarding mentally at all  even more heavy  impact on  gentle woman nature then just 400 an hour ..  you would not say - invasion of privacy on let say question about what you was  doing from the morning ..
 so .. I welcome  normal men .. but yet  among the biggest  there are some really nice gays .. ask me who ..I may gave names .. ha ah just kidding .. never will do soo !!!  just can give  a hint - un repellent  Marxist ... whom we talking about .. ah aha again just trick  and treat  ..  almost all billionaires are unrepellent marxists if they did work hard to build  their empire .. only celebrities do not  care about social structure  
 ( if you are such one - pm me  please ha ha ah )
 so i was confused same way as you are about walker... thing .. I was trying the best to show her .him ways how she can get this clientele but it is yes takes a lot of social skill connections communications  drive not seat home an intelligence  good stunnign fresh  NOT a whore hooker look etc .. so  
 I guess i also did respond too early on this post my mistake

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Could the OP mean arm candy for a gay man who wants to keep up appearances as a straight man?

The demand for that on here is null. In 6 years I have done maybe 3 public only dates that did not end up with some kind of sexual interaction, and the money is a joke. No one is going to pay thousands just to be seen with a woman..they can ask the local bartender to do that for free, or a friend of a friend.

Crisis25240 reads

I wish I had found this site early last year. I wanted arm candy for an event. Had to do some dangerous stuff to get a pretty bartender to accompany me. Looking back, I'd rather have paid.

Posted By: mssmithjones
How does one become a female "walker" for a (closeted) gay man? More specifically, for the executive/ government clientele, etc. NOT hourly, but more of a "lifestyle" escort. Heavy travel is not an issue. Many thanks!
Is this someone that you know and that you know is in the closet?  I don't think so.  If it was, you'd just offer to be their "walker".  

Do you expect to meet some stranger and say, "You look nice. Are you wealthy? Do you have an important, high paying job in business or government? Are you in the closet? Don't worry, I won't tell anyone. I was want to be your paid "walker"."  

I was going to suggest getting a job as an Executive Assistant to a big cheese and after a couple of weeks blurt out, "By the way, if you're secretly gay and need a female escort to public events, I'd be happy to accompany you for a small after hours fee."  But if you're an Exec Asst at that level, you're already making pretty good money.  

I just don't understand what you are hoping for and how you expect it to happen.  Please explain further

You've got it, Cannonhome1!

To add a response to one of the other comments, I am certainly not naïve. I'm simply wondering what avenue (site, etc.) I should look into to becoming a "walker"/ beard. That comment alone makes me wonder who is responding to my question. It just strikes me as odd that a high ranking elected official would like to jeopardize his reputation with hiring a newbie youth rather than an Ivy League graduate that can pose as a legitimate girlfriend (to assist with 'am I male or female') or lover.  

There's obviously an underground  scene that can handle this sort of service; and one that requires NDAs, background checks, etc. Suggestions welcomed. If you have some youth-driven comment, may I suggest posting them on another thread?

Thanks

Posted By: mssmithjones
It just strikes me as odd that a high ranking elected official would like to jeopardize his reputation with hiring a newbie youth rather than an Ivy League graduate that can pose as a legitimate girlfriend (to assist with 'am I male or female') or lover.
... hiring a newbie youth rather than some other UNKNOWN stranger?  

NY Gov Spitzer, Clinton's pal Dick Morris, Bush's pal Randall Tobias, and other VIPs who have been exposed are meeting with girls whose major selling point (OK, 2nd or 3rd selling point) is that they are so dumb that they don't even know who these guys are! (Spitz was caught by his unusual cash transactions, not by being outed by a bad date.)  

There's obviously an underground scene that can handle this sort of service; and one that requires NDAs, background checks, etc. Suggestions welcomed.
Good luck finding it.  In most of the examples I am thinking of (from movies and works of fiction), the non-celebrity but still VIP shows up at the club, the spa (NYC Plato's Retreat?), etc. but he always keeps his ID a secret (at least until page 167) or unless he already a very well known celebrity.  

The counterexamples that come to mind are Rock Hudson and Liberace.  They had gay lovers and they must have hooked with them somehow, maybe through some underground scene.

Maybe ask about Swinger's Clubs on your local board.  That might be the underground scene you're looking for.  Whether you'll find a VIP there ... who knows

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