It just me or is mrfisher "working" for TER. I mean, it's smart to do your homework to make sure providers aren't LE and all but what about the girls you find on eros or cityvibe or craigslist, should I not see them because they aren;t reviewed here on ter or elsewhere? How are these girls ever suppose to get established if noone will see them because they don't have reviews?

On almost every post regarding newbies I've read where mrfisher has posted, he's almost always cautioning people to stay away from non-reviewed girls and to get VIP or hints at getting VIP here at TER to check out the girls reviewed. Frankly, it's irritating me! If people want to get VIP, they will when they're good and read -- STOP "recommending" it all the time, will ya??

I'm sure I will now get a lot of angry replies from TER loyalists. Bring it.

ALWAYS recommend that Newbies see well reviewed Providers.

And to the OP, no - mrfisher does not work for TER, he's just an EXTREMELY helpful hobbyist.

i think you are way oversensitive or have some other issues.

mrfisher's advice is perfectly sane, sensible and sound. your post simply isn't. do you have some interest in having newbies meet B&S ladies, get trapped by LE, get ripped off? are you working for LE and the scam artists?

how does it feel to have your own table turned on you?

when i was looking at candidates for my first encounter i settled on one of a number of ladies i found on Eros. before i called her up i did a last check on the ladies i had decided to pass on and found a link to TER. "Whazzat?" said i. so i clicked the link found TER and discovered that the lady i was just about to try to book was a notorious cash and dash scam artist.

having been once again saved from disaster by a combination of blind luck and my preference for cautious analysis and research i've found TER to be an invaluable resource for avoiding crooks in the business.

so your complaint is going to get zero, 0, less than nada, sympathy from me.

the recommendation frequency is just damned fine, kudos to mrfisher for having the patience and compassion to repeat it as necessary.

should only see well reviewed ladies who have multiple reviews from established providers.  It is all about helping to ensure you have a wonderful experience without B & S, ROB, or C & D or LE involvement.  The reviews let you know (assuming you have VIP so you can read the details) what kind of date you will most likely experience.  If you are looking for BBBJ, MSOG, etc., the profile may be inaccurate but the reviews will be somewhat consistant; keeping YMMV in mind.

If you were learning to ski, would you go down the advanced slope first or the beginners slope?

many of which did not use TER.

Even some of the experienced guys get excited over ads that pop up on the malls, but after a while, we learn some of the signs for fake ads, and how to spot trouble when you make a phone call.

You will hear over and over again that newbies should find a gal with a good number of reviews, and reviews by guys with experience.  This is the best path for first timers especially, to assure a good time.

I am just one, among many, who is grateful to mrfisher for the time he volunteers on TER.

I am a newbie, I've only had 2 encounters so far. I took the advice and bought a VIP. I did a little research and chose what I thought was a good match for me being a first timer. I don't know if I'm allowed the mention her name but I wrote a review for her so you can check if want to.
She was wonderful to say the least. She knew I was a newbie and she took it slow and easy and made me feel very comfortable with just the right amount of excitement.
Your first time is something you'll remember for the rest of your life so why not invest a little extra to ensure a great memory?

The truth is, DC has promised me a blender when the one millioneth VIP member signs up.

I didn't intend it to happen this way, it's just that all my neighbors have blenders and I'm still screwing around with the ricer and grating the piss out of my hands, and so who couldn't resist the offer?

(Thanks one and all, by the way.  I am as red as a beet.)

First off, I'm going to ignore what you are implying about mrfisher and cut you some slack because this is the newbie board.

If you stick around a while you will see that mrfisher is not the only one giving this advice. I do it as do many other established regular posters here.

Frankly It's not my problem to worry about how non-reviewed providers get established.  I will leave it to others to TOFT. Feel free to do it as well if you like.  We are not telling you what to do, we are giving you advice based on our experiences. If you experienced in the hobby and know the warning signs it is quite possible to see a non-reviewed lady and have a great time.  A newbie is much better off sticking to established ladies until he learns the ropes.

Again, it's a free country, roll the dice if you wish...

...is Texcat on to something?!
I was beginning to think the EXACT same thing about this guys civvie life employment situation!

You bring up the same shit over and over again with your questions about LE (which BTW have become EXTREMELY annoying)and not being able to see a quality gal because you have no references.

Do you actually LISTEN to anything these men say here?
Do you just not have anything that bright or productive to say yourself, however feel the need to participate in the boards?

Stop taking up space!

WoW

I think you should see all the new guys and gals and then let us know how it goes and how long you last without diseases and silver handcuffs.

that way you can teach mr fisher a lesson

I have given the same advice as he, Bostonguy, and many others have on this subject.  Newbies, do your damn research before making that first date.  If you think that is a bad idea, them by all means, go find your dates on CL, BP, Taz, etc.  Feel free to TOFTT, knock yourself out.

Those of us that tell noobs to do this just want to help them have a good introduction to this wonderful hobby of ours.  These girls with no reviews here many well have them on some of the other review sites.  Remember, this is not the only one, just, imho, the best.  If they are good, sooner or later, they will get some reviews here.

BTW, I don't work for TER either, but I will stand by the recommendations we have made for these guys.

Remember, also, you don't have to read all of our posts when we are trying to help out the new guys.  So why are you bitching about them?  Makes no sense to me.

Swim

Mr. Fisher is a respected hobbyist who has given good advice to many of us at one time or another. I suggest in the future before you single out a person for giving advice do some research and you may find the answer to your question has a fairly universal answer from the TER community as a whole not just Mr. Fisher.  Sorry your are getting irritated. You realize this is TER  right.  Do not take the advice and quit whining.  Go ahead and check CL and Backpage.  LE runs there stings from these sites almost exclusively so when use them at least post under an alias when you get busted that a sting is happening and where... but then again I'm calling a lady with reviews(mr fisher told me to)Doc

Board, aren't we supposed to be nice on the newbie board.  Calling out someone for giving good advice really ticks me off especially when its the same advice the community seems to agree on as a whole.  Probably a good idea to place this in a kinder, gentler place.  If things get boring can you move it backon the GD board? lol
Doc

I'm sorry for not having anything bright to say. So how's that cure for cancer coming... sophisticateddouche.

he could be a worried advertising sales agent for CL, too.

justthought i'd add that possibility alos.

He cautions Newbies from TOFTT. The more experienced hobbyist can weigh the risks more evenly they have been there done that.
No he's not workin for TER but he is giving solid Newbie advice.

Once you have played a while seen a few gals then yes take your chances if you'd like.

for a food processor if ya got one.  Or maybe a new coffee maker i need one of those soon.

I've got one.

He's chained up in the cellar and answers to the name:  Igor.