Is it rude to ask the provider before you meet if she has had a baby adn the follow up qestion of was it natural or c-section. Some woman rebound wounderfully from child birth while other tear in certain spots and never heal quite right or the have all that loose skin around the belly indicative of bby birth?
Many providers are moms. Some have had C sections, and unfortunately have scars. Some you would not know by looking at them.
You would be better served by not indulging in that question, as yes, it may be considered rude.
Read the reviews, and pay close attention to their website photos. There are many with a nice flat hard belly.
why don't you do some research. I have 3 kids and no baby belly here. If you can see their belly in their pics the most likely she was fine.
We are not perfect though ya know a stretch mark here a little belly there...kids can do damage to a gals body.
Maybe you should see gals who have no kids. There are some without kids who have bigger bellies than the ladies with kids.
Nicole,,,,you are definitely a MILF!
...........some of us feel that our personal lives and those in it are none of your business. I don't ask if you have kids or spouse, you should do the same.
This is a touchy subject and I'm not sure how you could tactfully ask such a question, but I would like to share the following experience: 13 years ago I went to the Chicken Ranch, had a drink at the bar, met a friendly provider and went to her room for a party. We did all the negotiating, exam etc. She returned with the credit card, took off her camisole and had a series of stretch marks from her sternum to her pubis that were awful looking. It was a total turn off for me and something that is indelibly etched in my memory. I didn't think I had the option of changing my mind at that point so I went through with it but didn't really enjoy myself.
Now I make sure I can see the midrift in the providers photos.
That is about the funnest thing I have read in a long time. Can't believe he would think about a question like that, lmao.
Ask me a question like that in an e-mail and after deleting the e-mail, I'll block your e-mail address. Ask on the phone, and I'll hang up and block your number.
I would be wondering if you go to the butcher's and demand to shove your hand up the cow's ass before you buy a pound of beef too.
Damn good way to get your email ignored or to get hung up on...
You come really really close!! are you kidding me? I strongly suggest that you look closely at the pictures on their websites and make sure their not photo shopped so your not turned off by their "loose" skin!! or go for the young newcomers that have a real tight body!
So in other words..yeah, it's RUDE.
Jay
Now while the majority of providers would take offense to this I would not. If the C-section scarring and residual hanging skin is a turn off for you, then I don't see the problem in asking. Especially if the images on the website don't show any uncovered abdominal areas. Just be diplomatic...please
I don't have any kids but I do have a little belly from loosing 80lbs last year and I know a few providers with 2+ kids who have to die for 6 pack abs. In short every body is different.
YES...YES...YES
I love a place a can get this many honest answers, thanks guys and gals
Well looks like the answer you were seeking has been answered.
Actually sounds to me like you want someone with a perfect body. Nobody is "perfect".
Ive got 2 kids. Both by C section. Looking at me...you'd never know I was ever pregnant and even with a C section, you still cant tell I ever had children.
If someone has "loose skin" from child birth, it's going to show in the pic's. Unless you air brush the hell out of them, but then, that would be false advertising, now wouldnt it??
just like when you're buying (this case better say leasing) a car - you wanna know how many miles its got, whether its ever been wrecked. In this case you cant really say caveat emptor cause you dont get to kick the tires til youre already in the door. If the pics dont tell you what you want to know and what your asking aint x rated shit get you or the lady in trouble I dont see why not ask it. If she dont like it you can always get yourself another lady. Lady in this business cant really afford to be too sensitive seems to me. Shes renting out her body after all, the gents gonna see every inch of it sooner or later. Id think shed rather not have a disappointed customer go writing a bad review.