If you have see one of the girls you are interested in doing a double with ask her who she likes to play with. Many girls have doubles reviews you can read to get a sense of how she operates when working with a partner.
When I first got into the hobby I found I had a lot to learn. I expect that remains true while exploring new aspects of it. I've been thinking of trying to meet up with two providers at once and I'm not sure what to expect. I know a lot of it will depend on if the providers know each other and are comfortable. I'm just hoping to avoid an awkward moment or two.
One specific example, I'm wondering if they would expect to change rubbers when switching partners?
So to anyone out there that has met with two providers at once, are there any details that maybe you didn't consider ahead of time or just anything that took you by surprise?
I have done quite a few so maybe I can help you out.
1. Best thing for your first time is to get a woman you have seen and have good chemistry with to recommend a friend of hers to join you both. That will make her feel comfortable due to the fact she knows both people and you will feel comfortable, knowing at least one girl. It will also make it a more open and frank discussion as to your wants and dislikes with the gal you know so she can help with making your fantasies and specific menu options come true. Better yet would be to session 1 on 1 with the friend too prior. That can lead to some very hot times with you all being acquainted.
2. Its a MAJOR plus if both girls are bi, rather than "pay for gay." I have been involved with both types of situations and the "pay for gay" sessions can just be very disappointing. You want the two girls not only to be comfortable with each other, but be INTO each other as well.
3. If you are going to do it, do it right. Book a long enough session so you don't get slighted time wise on the front end or back end of your session. With three people involved, there is a greater percent chance that one of the girls will be running late. And if the other one has to leave at exactly your end time, you'll feel rushed. I would allow 2 hours for your first session, minimum, although I usually book 3 hours, which allows me to have two lengthy rounds with a good break in between rounds one and two.
4. Have SOME alcohol to break the ice at the beginning if you drink, but don't overdue it. Odds are you will be more nervous than usual and might have a tendency to drink more to get rid of your nerves but try and resist that as too much alcohol can hamper your session. My advice would be to stick with water the rest of your session. Make sure you check with the girls first, to make sure they feel comfortable with you drinking and to get their desired alcoholic beverage for them.
5. Do your best to get plenty of sleep the night before. Easier said than done but being fully rested will help you enjoy it all more.
6. Dont go in with a preconceived notion of what will/wont happen. Let it flow naturally. Some of my greatest times where with girls who just let the raw emotion and heat carry them away rather that to stick to some rigid pre-planned script of your "to do list".
7. This is important. Keep an eye on the clock! Two girls can get "chatty Cathy" on you (LOL) and burn up your time at the very beginning b4 the sex starts. Not that they do this on purpose, but even the most experienced gals get nervous too, and if they know each other, like I suggested they should, sometimes lengthy chats is how they deal with their nervousness. I would suggest keeping the initial chit chat at the beginning to around 20-30 minutes max, if you have at least 2 hours time scheduled.
And to answer your question, yes they do certainly expect for you to change rubs when you switch up. Not doing so could lead to a VERY awkward, if not heated moment, and that is def NOT what you want here.
Enjoy!
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I'm not sure why some don't. It might be that they are really into each other or work together a lot or just naive. But whatever the case, it's a lot more fun when you don't have to. If they do require it, I prefer to start and finish with one, then rest and start and finish with the other one. To find out, I usually start with one, then switch to the other, if they require it, they will switch it out for you. When that happens, I finish with the second one, then rest, then finish with the first one. Have fun and eat your wheaties!
but seriously folks,
You have some very good advice so far, but also think about how you want the session to go in terms of whether or not you want to have more than one gal at a time work on you.
For example, in some of the 3-ways I've been in, the gals worked like a tag team alternating every ten to fifteen minutes while the other takes a break.
But I like to have two gals work on me. My favorite is to have one suck or ride my cock while the other sat on my face and/or did DFK, or let me suck her tits. There are a lot of other positions that can work that way. For example (best to do this on the floor) do one gal doggy while the other gal straddles her so you can DATY her. It's really fun when the gals trade positions every ten minutes or so. (And yes, changing condoms is a must.)
Then there is the girlie show aspect that is a great way to get charged up in the beginning. I love to watch GOG action.
So, give the activity question a lot of thought and have it made very clear with the gal you set it up with what you want so no one is disappointed.
Have fun!
Great ideas by Jack & Fisher, can't go wrong listening to them. One important addition that wasn't mentioned is have them use female condoms. As far as I'm concerned they are a must during doubles.
and also have them both be FC friendly.
Good news is that they are becoming more popular with the ladies so I think this problem will take care of itself over time. Good addition, though.
I appreciate all the advice! Especially the bit about making sure to get at least 2 hours; hadn't considered the higher chances of someone being late. 2 hours with 2 providers... I have some saving up to do! ^_^
What about the donation? Do I put it all in the same envelope and let them worry about splitting it up? Or should each donation be separate?
And one thing I have NEVER done is discussed what specifically I'm looking for with a provider, even if I've seen them before. I figure it's always possible that someone has been compromised... So how do you go about telling the primary girl what you're looking for? Is it just a leap of faith? Or is there a certain way to go about it?
Actually glad someone brought this up as I'm considering doing this myself. One question I have is, since I'd ideally want two providers who are 'into it' with each other, is there any way to really verify this other than if their profile says 'really bi' (I ask because such information isn't always available, even if they do 2 girl sessions)? Like, can you ask what a girl's rules are regarding another girl?
And is it generally best to get a couple girls who advertise their '2 girl special' together?' I don't think anyone I've seen thus far does this, and less likely to be actually bi, so I think I'd be inclined to go with two I haven't seen before who are really into it. Thanks
They almost all say they are bi because it's one of the categories that if they answer yes to they can get a higher performance score. The difficult part is finding the ones that really are. I wouldn't do a double with two providers I'd never met but I'm sure others would and have been successful. My suggestion is pick a provider that you've seen, like, and you know she would be into it and have her make some suggestions for whom the third should be and pick one from her list. That way you get two girls that are comfortable with each other, one that you know you already like, and because you already know her you can ask her about what if any rules are in place regarding activities between them. These lengthy sessions can be expensive and I've found this method to be my best chance for success.
If you have see one of the girls you are interested in doing a double with ask her who she likes to play with. Many girls have doubles reviews you can read to get a sense of how she operates when working with a partner.