Below is a listing of statements that I think are acceptable to put in a first email to a provider.  Obviously, not all of these would be in the email.  Trying to compile a listing of what things are acceptable and what aren't.  I'd appreciate any feedback others would have.

"I'm interested in one hour of companionship.  Are you available Tuesday afternoon?"

"What is the donation for one hour of your time for incall?" (if her website or ad does not mention donation amount)

"I can provide references if requested"

"I've read your reviews on TER and think we are compatible"

"How much notice do you generally need before our session?"

"What part of town is your incall location?"  (If it's a big city and I want to know what area of town it is in)

I'm sure there can be many more - feel free to add others that might be good in the first email.

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#1 Is OK, but be specific as the time and length of the session.

#2.  Not OK.  If she has rate information on her site, just say that you have seen it, and nothing more.  If she doesn't see what her TER profile (Assuming she has one.) says, and state that is what you are going by.  If no rate information ask her where you can find this information, or pass.

#3 Fine, but give the references if you have OKed that with the gals whose names your are giving out.

#4 OK

#5 OK

#6 OK

You should give some background on yourself:  age, physical description, and read her website to see what else she requires in terms of screening information such as phone numbers, work phone, etc.

followed by "I found you on________," and then perhaps one of your other "opening sentences"

......I have received in quite sometime,  of course, I deleted his name.  I have one more to share, as well.  In other words; both gentlemen truly read my site before writing!

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

 
Hello Ms. Kelly,

How are you?  My name is xxxxxx.  I saw your website and am reaching out to make your acquaintance.  Your site says that you prefer to start conversations via e-mail, so I thought this would be the best way to contact you.  From reading your site, it seems that you have a very strong sense of who you are as a person, and I respect that a great deal.  If circumstances permit, perhaps some day I can introduce you to some of my favorite California red wines.

Before I use your site to request an appointment, I wanted to ask a couple questions.  First, what do you do with the information that you ask for in your screening process?  Most specifically, what do you do with the phone numbers?  I would hope that you would not call my work number, if possible, and that you would be discreet with my personal phone number.

Second, your site notes that you have a busy schedule.  What days of the week and times of day generally work best when scheduling appointments with you?  I would naturally want to find a time that is convenient for both of us.

Thank you for taking the time to read this.  I hope to hear from you soon.

Until we meet,
xxxxxx

........an actual e-mail; names and details deleted.

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

Kelly,

I saw a post you made on TER about the closing of streets last weekend and became curious.  After visiting your website (I loved your comments on the Afterthoughts page), I found myself further intrigued and would like to meet you.  Unfortunately I'm rather new.  Because of my good fortune I was able to retire several years ago and I understand that my lack of employment makes screening considerably more difficult.  I am an open book and willing to provide you with any information that would make you comfortable.

Here are a few details about me...

xxx xxx
5x years old
Retired from xxxxx
I have a Facebook page (so I can keep tabs on my kids)
I rent a condo in xxxx and own a house in xxxx
My phone number is: xxxxxxxx   I don't answer calls from numbers I don't recognize but I do return them if the caller leaves a message.  Text messages work also.

I have next xxxx the xx free and would love to spend a couple of hours getting to know you.

If nothing else, know that I did enjoy your website.  

Sincerely,
xxxxx

Her website is going to let you know what information is required.  
If she wants xyz, give her zyx.  Not xz or z.  

Hi.  My name is Jimmy Johnson.  My phone number is xxxx, and email is [email protected]
I saw your information on TER/NR/p411/Date Check.
My DC ID is  _____, P411 ID is _______, and TER handle is ______
Two recent references are Miss ABC, her email is xxx, and Ms.XYZ and her email is xxx.
I was wondering if you have two hours available on Tuesday mid morning.

Thank you for your consideration up front.
JJ

Straight to the point and just the facts.

END OF MESSAGE

myself similar to "I'm 6'4", 185, and in my early 50's with a mindset of a 45 year-old".  Note: physical description is not of myself.

DC, RS2K or P411 forget the email and contact her through that site. I have never needed to disclose a bunch of extra info when first contact was made through P411. When she responds with an email or through the system simply finalize the details and have fun. If you are not a member of one, become a member.

....usually it is "do you entertain female hobbyists?".

Most providers don't mention this in their many bio pages, so not only is it a great opener for someone like me, but it also addresses a very basic yet important bit of information pertinent to my situation.

As a matter of fact, I was asked to provide a physical description today.  
Not only did I give the description, I sent a photo as well.  It's only fair that she has a look at me since I've seen her photo, and when she opens the door, she'll know who is there