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Anyone use CL anymore?
mangredhi 3401 reads
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So I'm new to this whole thing and was wondering if anyone on here even uses CL anymore?  Is it a dangerous site to use now?  Seems like the consensus from other posts I've read is that it's not all that common anymore.

Never will I use CL to get a date. Most of the better providers also do not post on CL. The reason is that CL is full of scams, and they do not want to post where there are more scams than normal.

i take and manage risks but i don't play Russian roulette!

I'd have no problem using it to book a date IF someone had several solid reviews. In that case, where they advertise becomes irrelevant. Plenty of scams/flakes on Eros, Backpage, etc. as well.

LuckyStarz994 reads

CL is a valid medium, just as Eros and Cityvibe are.  

If you don't know what you're doing, stay off.
If you're a seasoned pro or client happy hunting.

You're the one who sounds like he's better than those who do not use CL. So, what's up with that?

I have been lucky so far not to need additional ad's, but still sometimes think about using CL since i only had positive experience there. For a hobbyist i would be scared shitless due to all i read happening to you gents. But for myself it is fairly harmless to post i think? Im scared to do it though since you have to leave CC#. What do you guys think, feel free to PM me!! Kisses, Belle.

I would have to say that CL is not for the faint of heart or the newbie. There are lots of scammers and you run a high risk of being arrested, because in most areas CL is the hottest thing for uncle leo right now. If you are new, and uneducated do yourself a favor, think with the big head, and stay away from CL. That being said, I see a few ladies off of cl, and greatly enjoy their company. There is a lot to be said for being able to call up a lady at midnight when you are horny and be having fun shortly thereafter.

Dont bother. Not worth it in the long run. Stick to TER, learn the system, visit well reviewed girls, etc. CL is easier for some newbies; easier to get appointments when you dont have references to give for example, cheaper, but ultimately? Not worth the risk. Visit the newbie manual, and then read it over again. Do your research, and go from there. Leave CL alone!

1) To find women "Right Now" who are available at a moments notice.   I simply cannot plan my hobbying, so if I can find a woman I know or have visited before who is available now, then it is great.

2) To find some new women who interest me.   Remember there is a much larger world than who is in TER.  I know that is hard to believe for many people, but there are other women out there than those who have been reviewed on TER.  I have found some great women who have made me very happy who have never been associated with TER.

The secret to CL is to look at each ad, and be willing to dismiss a good percentage for a multitide of reasons.   It is difficult to do for un-seasoned hobbyists, but if you do, then you will be just fine.

So many people talk so much crap about CL , but it is only unsafe if the people using do not take precautions ( like not screening, no reviews etc.)
I use CL everytime i work .. I can let people no that i am available right then and there, and many men use CL for that very reason.

also so many hobbyiest talk crap about CL , yet I get aloy of inquiries about my ad from TER members..go figuire..

As long as i screen screen i feel CL is a productive marketing tool..

shudaknownbetter1328 reads

Sure...  I find somebody I'm interested on TER & I click the link to CL, Eros, or where ever to see the add.
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But the only way I feel comfortable contacting a provider off of CL is if I cross-check to ensure they have reviews here.  The TER plug-in application (see the announcement on the home page for TER).  This makes it quite easy to scan the ads and check for reviews.  Just follow the instructions in the readme file.

Also, as a newbie, make sure that even if she has reviews, she should have multiple reviews from established reviewers that have reviewed multiple providers.

NOTE!!!:  This plug-in is right-click available to everyone that uses the computer it is installed on.  So, be sure you have control of computer access.  It shows up as a non-assuming little 'Search on TER' line at the bottom of the right-click menu, but you may not want to explain that to anyone.

Just a personal choice. I know that other guys use it, and have good luck there. I just figure that between TER, Date-Check, and Preferred411, there are enough ladies to keep me happy for a lifetime. If it turns out that there aren't, then I die with my pecker in my hand, and money in my wallet.

CL requires that you use common sence,inteligence not to mention keep cking ter reviews for the ones that ladies that are real not scams.as for seeing a new lady right off press not a good choice.i was mainly erpos plkayer for years, but ive branched off a time or twwo.

my advice is this for any newbies, stick with ter you should be ok,if you do try out cl, make sure you see them on ter first otherwise stay clear.

just a honest observation

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