I love to go down on a girl...or as i guess it is called here...DATY.....Well I so far have yet to do this when visiting a provider.  I really want to...but I worry about health safety.  

Any comments and suggestions welcome!

You can read the posts about health issues if you will do a search of the database. I choose to only dine with a few providers and know that they have regular blood tests.

Being new, it might be a little harder to determine if the provider you see has herself tested but you should consider having yourself tested ocassionally as well. I seen the recommendation of every three months for a hobbyist and monthly for the provider.

All that said, when you choose to dine you do so at a certain risk. Do what you can to assure the provider practices good hygiene and do the same yourself.

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As you can probably guess by my handle,I enjoy DATY myself and unless she forbids it,I've eaten out each and every lady that I see with a passion!Okay,my hair,ears and fingernails are falling off me like Jeff Goldblum in The Fly,but I love it anyway LOL!!!{JUST KIDDING}As far as the battle between fear and desire in your head,only you can make that decision for yourself.But if desire wins out over fear {and I suspect that it eventually will} just make sure to do your TER homework and see a well-reviewed provider who has a history of being clean.Most reviewers will state if she's clean and fresh or not.Good luck!

catching a bug is like driving a car.
You can drive your car around for years and not get a speeding ticket or an accident. But I'm sure you know of people that just have a black cloud over them and when shit happens, it happens to them.

A girl can be very clean and still have a bug and may infect you.
Even if you and she go get tested, it's not 100% since there's still a window of where you can be infected.

If you really are concerned with health and safety, get a girlfriend and you both get tested and stay monogamous.
Other wise, it's like you drive defensively but there is still the chance, you may get a ticket and you may get that accident.
You can stay home, whack off and never have the possibility of catching any bug but you aren't enjoying life either.

You have to always weigh the risks and rewards when having fun....

I don't recommend DATY'ing with a provider.  After all, think of how many guys' she's been with before you?